Why do some women choose to be knocked up by deadbeat's?

[mtu wa chuma]

You will never see an attractive intelligent ambitious woman having a kid with a deadbeat.in fact I doubt the two of them will ever come into contact with each other for that to ever happen.

Oh and the same is true vice versa

 

[MoneyTron]

You will never see an attractive intelligent ambitious woman having a kid with a deadbeat.in fact I doubt the two of them will ever come into contact with each other for that to ever happen.

Oh and the same is true vice versa

Nah, my GF's best friend was with a deadbeat for close to a year. She works as an engineer at a Fortune 500 company and he stocks shyt at Wal-Mart. She broke it off after she learned he had like 4 side chicks. She already knew he had 2 baby moms too.

 

[mtu wa chuma]

Well at least he had a job.

 

[havoc]

Just found out my boy sister has been knocked up again by her baby daddy.

He has no job (a felon)
He is on probation for laying the smackdown on his previous ex. Reason why he can't get a job.

Stays home all day and smoke weed 24/7 and this b!tch has made him knock her up AGAIN?

I can understand popping babies for a man who has something going on in his life but what's the point of having all these kids when you cannot even support your fukking self!!!

I got word he may have violated his parole on some bullshyt yesterday
And oh he has 2 other kids with 2 different baby moms

I'm not making this up...this is real life sh!t folks!!!

God I hope you are not talking about cousin because this story sound close to home. That nikka got like 4 baby mamas and ain't doing nothing to improve his life.

 

[Chris.B]

Nah, my GF's best friend was with a deadbeat for close to a year. She works as an engineer at a Fortune 500 company and he stocks shyt at Wal-Mart. She broke it off after she learned he had like 4 side chicks. She already knew he had 2 baby moms too.

Well if he has a job and taking care of the kids, I don't think that qualifies as deadbeat. he may be unfaithful but at least he is taking care of his kids

 

[MoneyTron]

Well if he has a job and taking care of the kids, I don't think that qualifies as deadbeat. he may be unfaithful but at least he is taking care of his kids

 

[DaChampIsHere]

shyt happens everyday B. A lot of women never have their priorities right cuz the society we live in doesn't punish them enuff for making bad decisions. I mean if she has more kids than she can care for and the baby daddy doesn't take care of them EHHH so what, EBT, WIC, WELFARE and Gov't Assistance programs will raise the child and she won't be responsible for paying shyt the burden falls back on the child's father financially while she can live the life of the queen squeezing out more. You know if you put these women in countries without gov't assistance they would magically stop having children.

I wish y'all would let go of this train of thought.

Ain't no woman goin' through +18 years of being a single mom, drama, being seen as a social misfit for $300 in food stamps

Women do this because they want to change men, because they think they are special. They are afraid to move on to the next dude, or even finding a next dude. No for no damn EBT card.

You get what you deserve, I truly believe in that saying. Mess with a no good nikka, chances are, you are a no good bytch, thems the breaks.

Except in the cases of Coli brehs. Every Coli breh is an all around great dude, but for some reason we just keep attractin' these disrespectful hoes.

 

[Born2BKing]

Because it's exciting. Hey I can understand why being with those men is exciting. What I don't understand is why they keep having babies with them. I guess bytches are just stupid.

Them bytches be thinking they can change that deadbeat nikka into corporate type. Little do they know is that the nikka has no intentions of bettering himself for her or the child. Like Shawns pops said in Don't Be a Menace "I ain't got to do shyt, my mama take care of me"

 

[Tyuhnjko]

Some women have low self esteem and think these are good men.

Some women think the guy is a good dude at first and after they find out he isn't she thinks she is supposed to be "ride or die" and stay with a man no matter what.

To agree with previous posters "Some women are with their equal."

Some women find their worth in having a man.... And any man that will pay them mind, will do. They refuse to be single.

So many reasons. We could go on for days.

 

[Born2BKing]

Some women have low self esteem and think these are good men.

Some women think the guy is a good dude at first and after they find out he isn't she thinks she is supposed to be "ride or die" and stay with a man no matter what.

To agree with previous posters "Some women are with their equal."

Some women find their worth in having a man.... And any man that will pay them mind, will do. They refuse to be single.

So many reasons. We could go on for days.

You always spiting some real shyt, I fukks with you. Also, don't forgot how some chicks think a man who can fukk the shyt out of them is a good man. Like yeah he broke and lazy but damn he got a big dingling.

 

[Tyuhnjko]

Also, don't forgot how some chicks think a man who can fukk the shyt out of them is a good man. Like yeah he broke and lazy but damn he got a big dingling.

We call that being "dikkmatized"

It happens to the best of us. Most of us finally snap out of it tho.

 

[Doobie Doo]

I wish y'all would let go of this train of thought.

Ain't no woman goin' through +18 years of being a single mom, drama, being seen as a social misfit for $300 in food stamps

Women do this because they want to change men, because they think they are special. They are afraid to move on to the next dude, or even finding a next dude. No for no damn EBT card.





Except in the cases of Coli brehs. Every Coli breh is an all around great dude, but for some reason we just keep attractin' these disrespectful hoes.

Puhlease, bytches sell themselves short in every other aspect in life. No they aren't having kids just for EBT but take it away and see how many of them stop having kids. Don't act like its not a influential factor in deciding between live birth and abortion or never getting pregnant at all.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Puhlease, bytches sell themselves short in every other aspect in life. No they aren't having kids just for EBT but take it away and see how many of them stop having kids. Don't act like its not a influential factor in deciding between live birth and abortion or never getting pregnant at all.

Sorry breh. Non one's giving up their freedom and extra income for EBT cards and drama for life.

Keep thinkin' that though. Your train of thought is just very linear. There's more to the shyt.

 

[Born2BKing]

We call that being "dikkmatized"

It happens to the best of us. Most of us finally snap out of it tho.

I have dikkmatized several women in my day. That's why I tell em like Plies said "I can't be fukking you on the first night, cuz once you get this here it'll fukk up ya whole life"

 

[cleanface coney]

Sorry breh. Non one's giving up their freedom and extra income for EBT cards and drama for life.

Keep thinkin' that though. Your train of thought is just very linear. There's more to the shyt.

lol thank you most females do that shyt cuz nikkas dont be shyt
they might get a lil confortable but honestly sometimes thats female only way to make a nikka do something for the child