I'm not reaching, if you don't notice the obvious dislike for women (not calling them ghey) on this forum then you don't notice it.
but I'm sure more than a few people would agree that some coli dudes enjoy seeing other people (especially women) do bad in life.
You misinterpreted me, allow me to explain; reach for the stars means believe in yourself and you can achieve what you want if you try. I was giving you encouragement, 'some coli dudes' don't represent everyone.