Why do people believe that men = fat women?

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...How long do you think it would take an average person with modest motivation to lose enough weight to be acceptable by let's say humble brehs standards


AND.. should this breh consider this beastly creature and not exclude them from future considerations solely because of their weight.



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Modest motivation? 1 year. Serious motivation? 6 months.

If her weight is the only issue, she's of good character and has other things goin' on, I'd consider her. I'd need to see steps being taken, but I'd consider her.
 
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Modest motivation? 1 year. Serious motivation? 6 months.

If her weight is the only issue, she's of good character and has other things goin' on, I'd consider her. I'd need to see steps being taken, but I'd consider her.

Here lies the issue.. I'm not sure she really grasps the fact that this is the really only reason I'm not really feeling it.

I've tried to drop some real hints towards it.. but not sure she's getting it. I'm not trying to crush her soul but I need her to get the point like... bytch this shyt has ZERO chance if you don't put those cheeseburgers down..lol

I know it's hard for women to lose weight.. but this chick IMO has a tough road ahead to lose all that weight..

so I'm kinda like..

:scust: but :patrice:

I don't wanna throw the broad in the bushes then see her a year from now and she fukked around and lost it and in premium MILF mode

I also ain't trying to give her that early false hope and she gets comfortable like.. Oh he accepts me the way I am..

no bytch ..
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Here lies the issue.. I'm not sure she really grasps the fact that this is the really only reason I'm not really feeling it.

I've tried to drop some real hints towards it.. but not sure she's getting it. I'm not trying to crush her soul but I need her to get the point like... bytch this shyt has ZERO chance if you don't put those cheeseburgers down..lol

I know it's hard for women to lose weight.. but this chick IMO has a tough road ahead to lose all that weight..

so I'm kinda like..

:scust: but :patrice:
Try not beatin' around the bush. Tell her what the issue is.

It's bigger than eatin' less/better. She's gonna have to workout. She may need you to workout with her.

It's not hard losin' weight unless you have some type of ailment that makes it so. It's hard to muster up the motivation & consistency.

I don't wanna throw the broad in the bushes then see her a year from now and she fukked around and lost it and in premium MILF mode

I also ain't trying to give her that early false hope and she gets comfortable like.. Oh he accepts me the way I am..

no bytch ..
:martin:
If it were me, and I liked her aside from the weight, I see what's up. But I'd be very up front about my expectations. IMO, no one comes ready made. We all have faults. Most can be addressed. If she's of good character, she's more likely to address this for herself. And if she's into you, that's additional motivation.
 
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Try not beatin' around the bush. Tell her what the issue is.

It's bigger than eatin' less/better. She's gonna have to workout. She may need you to workout with her.

It's not hard losin' weight unless you have some type of ailment that makes it so. It's hard to muster up the motivation & consistency.

If it were me, and I liked her aside from the weight, I see what's up. But I'd be very up front about my expectations. IMO, no one comes ready made. We all have faults. Most can be addressed. If she's of good character, she's more likely to address this for herself. And if she's into you, that's additional motivation.


You make some good points..

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