why do brehs always need to "fight for her"

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Experience when I was younger , I remember bringing q card and all that saying I would change even though I did nothing wrong :heh:


Wish I had the balls to do that in 2-3 instances in my life real talk. As a young breh these chicks will make it seem like you're about to be bombed back to the Stone Age if they leave LOL. only when your alone on your grind and letting your mouthpiece get you into new situations do you realize that none of this shyt matters in the long run.
 

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Talking about I'm going to fight for her, show her I'm different now. I told her I loved her when she said its over :mjcry:

Like :dahell:

Anytime a chick dumps me, I agree with what she says

I care about you but its over

Allright

Its just not working how i thought it would reinscarf

Yeah your right :jawalrus:

I still want to be your friend I need you in my life still

Sure :smugfavre:

Then I delete and block her number and never talk to her again.

First off, how many times have you gotten dumped breh :dwillhuh:

Secondly, why not tell her the truth instead of agreeing with her. I remember this one broad I met online years ago invited me to her crib. I got there, asked her a drink, and the disrespectful bytch gave me pipe water to drink :dahell:

Next day she called me I told her to lose my number and that I have no desire to fukk with her on any level. shyt felt really good breh :ehh:
 

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First off, how many times have you gotten dumped breh :dwillhuh:

Secondly, why not tell her the truth instead of agreeing with her. I remember this one broad I met online years ago invited me to her crib. I got there, asked her a drink, and the disrespectful bytch gave me pipe water to drink :dahell:

Next day she called me I told her to lose my number and that I have no desire to fukk with her on any level. shyt felt really good breh :ehh:
 

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Oh, you see, the problem with her asking you to fight for her right as she's about to leave... she's probably had a lot of resentment in her heart all along. She just bottled it all up instead of addressing her concerns as they appeared. She let issues pile up until she couldn't stand it anymore and then, powered by her anger, made this last ditch effort to get you to change while threatening to leave. Ultimatums aren't as effective as people expect them to be though.

Of course, I understand why a woman dating Reincar would have many, many concerns as the red flags kept popping up endlessly... but anyhow, it's never good to swallow your concerns until you're ready to break up. Gotta address the little problems quick.
 

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fighting for anyone after they dump your ass is dumb. fukk that wasting my time shyt.

my ex and i broke up and "tried" to make that shyt work out for like 6-8 months after.. waste of time. it just prolonged the inevitable and made the heartbreak worse.
 

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What about when it's the other way around? Are guys :dwillhuh: Shocked if she's just like ok I understand? I feel like most of the time the girl would be upset or to the least question it a bit.
 

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if u fukked up then fight for her meaning u cheated, mistreated her and shyt
but if she wanna go let her go
I agree to a certain extent with this


If you did some dumb shyt and want her back then fine.



If she just wants an ego boost or just not into the relationship, or is just always never satisfied the let her ride
 
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