Why do black men play bongo drum 

This siteIt's nothing to be ashamed of, it's always been a desirable trait, from my perspective, that was passed down from our ancestors hundreds of years ago and is ingrained in our roots that trace back to the motherland. I believe that certain desires one holds are what their ancestor's preferences and preferable traits in a partner were at the time and are often being passed down from them and influence the current generations of today.
To be a Black man and not like a woman with a big butt, something's gotta be wrong with him, and/or he's become too indoctrinated by the White man's/society's idea of beauty.
Hell, you could say the same thing about Black women preferring men who pack a big piece (pause). It's rare to find or hear a Black woman prefer a man with a little cactus; that's one of many reasons why Black men are Black women's preferred man of choice, in her eyes, the Black man's sexual prowess is unmatched.
African bruhs and women are the same way; sure, there are men of all races/ethnicities that might like a big butt as well but their perception of what a big ass looks like isn't the same. For example, a White man might find Scarlett Johansson to be a woman with a big ass for the ages, but to the average Black man, she'd likely be considered a no-ass/pancake ass-having woman; in other words, she ain't really got no ass.
Thank God we became culturedThe Media, especially in late 99 into 2000s with puffy got with JLO and it was the media talking about Ass and next thing u know Juvie with back that thang up
In the 90s and prior ass wasn’t that big of a deal it was all about a sister face
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The better question is why do white men like a flat no ass pancake butt?
It’s weird.
That’s the real question.
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@HarlemHottie why do you have dudes in here making a mockery of your good name , dude is way outa pocket
It was in another thread where dude called you triple agent, pazzy & said something about the both sides bs . It was all bs , he called you out & I do not want to type out what he saidquote it for me, please.
(excuse the weird pagination on this post, idk what's going on)
Its well documented. I didn't make it up.I just summarized the video.
There's a section in which he speaks about curves and voluptuous women being depicted in African art and sculptures - even dating back to rustic old paintings - similarly voluptuous women were the focus of the European renaissance (which is true) - to the point rubenesque became a descriptor - but changes are noted from/since industrialization.
I do agree white beauty standards are anchored by WS, but I also think saying white beauty standards are based on pedophilia is kind of a crazy assertion to make - but I'm not going to fight you on it, I just disagree with that part. Not too far from some crazy shyt a cac would say about our beauty standards![]()
Its well documented. I didn't make it up.
She's a best selling author who heavily details a through explanation on the subject; an actual expertI try to be intentional with my words - I don't believe I said you made it up. I do however think it's a crazy assertion to make - and I'm not going to watch nor take a tiktok video of someone babbling as they knit as corroboration/some sort of infallible truth.
Again, I'm not going to fight you on it. I just think it's a crazy wide brush to use, one that I don't subscribe to - even if I do agree that white beauty standards are anchored by white supremacy
She's a best selling author who heavily details a through explanation on the subject; an actual expert
You disagreeing with something based on your feelings. But okay.
I'll stick with the experts.
The Media, especially in late 99 into 2000s with puffy got with JLO and it was the media talking about Ass and next thing u know Juvie with back that thang up
In the 90s and prior ass wasn’t that big of a deal it was all about a sister face
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