Why Black Women Are Upset About Black Men Checking Out (Passport Bros)

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:usure: You see my sig. Not this man here.

I get the impression that her husband (gym owner and trainer iirc) lets her dress like that to low key flaunt his work. Which, fine, he appears to have led her well thus far based on where she started. As he matures, I'm sure priorities will shift. To wit, she recently stopped showing her tattoos.

I stick with Kendra despite any minor disagreement bc shes the only spokesperson ive found for Dr Colemans as yet unpublished '10 Life Values' system. I find it a valuable, secular framework for identifying and addressing problem areas, ie, 'getting your life together.' As soon as her website provides the printables, ill start sharing with the various clergy, social workers, and unpaid 'community ppl' in my extended circles.



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Yea I won’t front— I saw that in some previous videos of hers and that’s what got me interested. She does drop knowledge!

And I understand being a woman so it makes sense to only critique her sex, but seriously it’s like every.little.thing. is the fault of BW. All of the men AND women in the space do nothing but speak about “modern women”, as if there’s nothing to be said about “modern men”.

As harsh as he can be I have to give JasonBlack his credit because he at least speaks about the failings of both sexes.
 

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Yea I won’t front— I saw that in some previous videos of hers and that’s what got me interested. She does drop knowledge!

And I understand being a woman so it makes sense to only critique her sex, but seriously it’s like every.little.thing. is the fault of BW. All of the men AND women in the space do nothing but speak about “modern women”, as if there’s nothing to be said about “modern men”.

As harsh as he can be I have to give JasonBlack his credit because he at least speaks about the failings of both sexes.

We just finished watching Jason's Christmas eve broadcast. (He so dramatic. :pachaha:)

Im gonna say something delicate, but i been sipping on special Christmas morning coffee, so we'll see how i do. :skip: What i have found in a very peaceful but passionate 20 yr relationship is that it works best when each partner assumes fault. The inverse is true as well. I think its bc, when you assume its you, you actually do the work to fix it. When you assume its your partner, the natural conclusion would be to change partners. Does that make sense?

So, imo, Kendra is speaking exactly as one would expect. Assume fault, fix you first. When your partner is operating in good faith, he does the same and you come back together better than before. At least, thats how it works in my house.
 

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We just finished watching Jason's Christmas eve broadcast. (He so dramatic. :pachaha:)

Im gonna say something delicate, but i been sipping on special Christmas morning coffee, so we'll see how i do. :skip: What i have found in a very peaceful but passionate 20 yr relationship is that it works best when each partner assumes fault. The inverse is true as well. I think its bc, when you assume its you, you actually do the work to fix it. When you assume its your partner, the natural conclusion would be to change partners. Does that make sense?

So, imo, Kendra is speaking exactly as one would expect. Assume fault, fix you first. When your partner is operating in good faith, he does the same and you come back together better than before. At least, thats how it works in my house.
And I won’t front- that’s usually the best approach and how I was raised.

I guess what I’m saying is it seems like majority of the ppl in the space are telling one sex to focus on themselves and their faults. Of course women have things to work on collectively! But it seems like it would make more sense for women to rise up and tell women to fix ourselves, and for the men to rise up and tell the men to fix themselves.

What I should say is I think the approach of someone like Nicole Michelle is what is actually needed to help guide and improve the women who want to get it right. She seems to have a gentler, but still no-nonsense approach that gets results.

These women who get online yelling and bashing like the men aren’t exactly displaying the femininity that they say we need.

Even Ro with her “wife school” has a great temperament. That’s why I can’t take most of the women in that space seriously. They don’t actually seem soft and ladylike themselves LOL
 

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I guess what I’m saying is it seems like majority of the ppl in the space are telling one sex to focus on themselves and their faults. Of course women have things to work on collectively! But it seems like it would make more sense for women to rise up and tell women to fix ourselves, and for the men to rise up and tell the men to fix themselves

Thats probably bc we've spent the bulk of the last two decades ennumerating mens faults in great detail, in mixed company, in academia, in public spaces. I mean, they got it. We now have an increasingly fed up generation of marriage age bm with decent to great prospects who cant find suitable wives. Bw better get on some time, they wont wait forever.

As to tone, i think Kendra is aggressive when she gets in her bag, cuz at that point, she preaching. If you'll note, shes always very sweet and soft spoken at the very beginning and very end. I think its also worth noting that that the imagery she uses, lionesses vs hyenas, is at base animalistic and aggressive. Thats what gets through. Femininity works on men, not women, and hyenas outright mock it, so she wouldnt be as effective. I, for example, couldnt run her show effectively.

For feminine, wife-to- wife type advice, i watch several christian, black tradwife channels.
 

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Thats probably bc we've spent the bulk of the last two decades ennumerating mens faults in great detail, in mixed company, in academia, in public spaces. I mean, they got it. We now have an increasingly fed up generation of marriage age bm with decent to great prospects who cant find suitable wives. Bw better get on some time, they wont wait forever.

As to tone, i think Kendra is aggressive when she gets in her bag, cuz at that point, she preaching. If you'll note, shes always very sweet and soft spoken at the very beginning and very end. I think its also worth noting that that the imagery she uses, lionesses vs hyenas, is at base animalistic and aggressive. Thats what gets through. Femininity works on men, not women, and hyenas outright mock it, so she wouldnt be as effective. I, for example, couldnt run her show effectively.

For feminine, wife-to- wife type advice, i watch several christian, black tradwife channels.
I get it.

I guess I was truly raised in a bubble because the women in my family/circle don’t speak about men that way, and the men in my family/circle are all good, successful guys. I honestly didn’t know it was this bad until I saw this crap on YT.

I said it before, but I really thought ppl were just exaggerating for views.
 

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I get it.

I guess I was truly raised in a bubble
because the women in my family/circle don’t speak about men that way, and the men in my family/circle are all good, successful guys. I honestly didn’t know it was this bad until I saw this crap on YT.

I said it before, but I really thought ppl were just exaggerating for views.

So was i, sis. I was raised to view morally upright, materially successful bm as valuable, precious even in a world set against them. My (single) mom even managed to raise one on her own, i stan my big bro. But i come from a place where girls genuinely are fatherless, preyed upon, etc, and even they aren't as jaded and bitter as the educated women i know irl or online.

I didnt fully get it until i spent some time on a bw forum. I literally watched the radicalization occur. One day, women like us were holding it down. The next, theyd been seduced by the sisterhood into devaluing bm wholesale, despite their own excellent fathers, husbands, and sons. :what:

It was crazy. I got banned. :lolbron:
 

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Black women and their male feminazi sycophants are upset about passport bros and black men because they are realising that the reign of the western black gynocracy/matriarchy is over and there's nothing that they can do about it apart from complain, call them 'incels', 'gay/bi', 'ya'll hate women' and other such inane words. It truly shows their character, correction, lack of character... Oh, and they're a bunch of arrogant, unlikeable dikkheads (I'm also an unlikeable dikkhead too, but at least I can admit it). They know deep down that the feminist programming of western women has fukked up and over western societies and their women, yet they refuse to take a stand on it, let alone criticise it.
Black women and their male feminazi sycophants just can't admit that their worldview has failed them and anybody with more than 3 braincells can see that it has failed. They act like they have all the answers when in reality they can barely muster any type of resistance to the cultural paradigm shift that is underway and frankly was long overdue.
"Just get married," says the tradcuck and male feminazi sycophants. Not realising that marriages don't make people stable. Stable people get married and while women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
"Just go out there and meet women," says the tradcuck and male feminazi sycophants. Not realising that many men are doing that and we're not liking what we're encountering.

All I've got to say to Western Black women and their male feminazi sycophants is, do better... And you time is up.

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It was a joke!
It shouldn't be this "deep", I'm not "pro-Black" or a "militant" by TLR standards, so miss me with that BW this, BM that stuff but gah damn :gucci:

If you're a man in large city and have to go overseas to explicitly eat then :mjlol:

And if you're a woman getting mad at that shyt and pretending you're pro-Black, go tf outside

I pray neither side have children, red and pink pill retards would be terrible parents
 

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fukk the passport movement. Its inherently Anti-FBA and FBA family

Anything not promoting FBA unions could eat a dikk. They in the same boat as divestors

:camby::camby::camby::camby::camby::camby:

It takes two to tango. How do you think that we got to this point of bruh's talking about leaving the country to find more traditional women?

Y'all act like sisters here in America haven't been on some heavy bullshyt in the last fifty years as far not wanting to be traditional women but expecting the man to play a traditional provider role while the women act like they are the heads of the household. Who has been pushing "black men ain't shyt" for the last 50 fukking years?
 
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