Who Taught U The Game?

Kyle C. Barker

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An older friend who I do consider to be a big brother. He's about 10 years older than me and he been through everything.

I pretty much give him a play by play on what I be going through with these chicks and he always has the right answer...

But I didn't always follow his advice though :francis:


Which brings me to my second teacher... A demonic female who I done gave my soul too :Wowdreds:



She came in crushed the buildings something serious:Soulglo2:



Your boy was out the game and on injured reserve for close to 2 years :Deadcac34:




But I came out that fire 10 times better than I was before so in a way I have to thank her for that. :Jbaby:
 
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For the brehs out there struggling with women don't despair. There was a time in my life when I was in a dark place and wasn't getting any women. Then I decided to treat it like a job/business. I can't control my heights and color of my skin, but I can control getting regular haircuts/line ups, the clothes I wear, the tone and speed of my voice, my ability to use eye contact, and my body as far as working out/eating right. I studied social skills. Started from the very bottom with a simple question: "How do people converse?" Read everything I could on conversations. Read books about listening, which is a different concept than just hearing someone. Learned about body language and how to use it to control/persuade/seduce others. All this led me to another question: "What is flirting?" Read as much as I could find on the topic. Remember, the internet is your friend. I read about flirting body language, tone of voice, humor, etc. Lastly, but perhaps most importantly, you gotta put yourself out there. No point in learning all these things if you don't put them to use. When I started, I made a point of getting at 3 women each day come hell or high water. I recorded my interactions with women and would reflect daily on where I went wrong and what went well.
Full disclosure, when I was in high school I had girls come up to me and talk to me. When I got to college that stopped and I couldn't deal. Wasn't until I was 21 and decided I couldn't with getting no women that I made changes.
 
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Got my game laid to me by my older bro, a few older cats I worked around, and hanged with, and of course bumping some Suga Free and DJ Quik. :myman:
 
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A former neighbor of mine who used to be a huge coke dealer back in the 80's put me up on a whole lot of game. I never really found out how he fell off, but we spent a lot of time together chopping it up, smoking kools and drinking mickeys lol, during my teenage/young-adult years.

I was also laced by a filipino breh named, Mike "Dream". Him and my cousin were very close, with my cousin being the one that influenced his progression towards political activism. He was murdered during a robbery back in '00. Turned out his mom and my father in law were really close friends too. My wife had even met him a handful of times back in the day.



edit: Didn't realize this thread was about game with females. The two mentioned above put me on some, but for the most part it was just from running the streets and getting first hand experience with them. Growing up on too short tapes and rap music in general also shaped my initial approaches to relationships with women, for more better than worse.
 
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Marlostanfield. said:
Being around pimps, reading pimp books, my first bottom hoe cinnamon, and trial and error, and psychology books.

Trial and error is best way to learn though because when I started pimping I had knowledge but no experience, so I was getting game ran on me, but I caught on.

And same thing when I wasn't pimping before that. Just studying people and trial and error.
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What game u learned from pimping
 
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I listened to a lot of game from my Dad when I was in hs but I didn't have the experience. Now I'm 23 and close to graduating college, I got a lot of game from trial and error. I still haven't perfected the art of not wearing my heart on my sleeve, but honestly that got me a lot of bytches on it's own. :yeshrug:
 
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My mama. I wasn't sure how to hold the controller at first, but once she showed me how to make Mario jump...it was on.
 
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Hennessypapi said:
Bless us. These dudes will get over it. Its probably nothing I havent heard before lol

Ive heard my aunt tell my cousin ...” get a fat or ugly one, theyll treat u better and make sure they have money too”....


Obviously my aunt aint shyt but trust me Ive heard worse lol
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Hmm, here’s some

A man falls in love through his genitals. Any thing else he says is lip service.

If you’re not signed to a team (actually where you want to be i.e. married/engaged), you’re a free agent. Seems parallel to the “don’t do wifey things for a boyfriend” thing right? It’s the opposite. You do wifey things and then pull the rug out when you want to be upgraded. Gotta create a fall sense of comfort.

Aftercare is important. Keep a warm wet towel on hand.
 
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