Who on the Coli has been a virgin the longest? (30yrs for me) [UPDATE: now ̶3̶̶̶3̶̶̶ ̶3̶4̶ ̶3̶5̶ ̶ 3̶6̶ 3̶7̶ 3̶̶̶8̶ ̶3̶9̶ 40]

[Mindfield333]

I don't know. Is it possible to give up on something that never started?

Get to know someone… but don’t necessarily have sex in the front of your mind.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

What city does OP live in? I say we pitch in and get breh a nice piece of ass

 

[85 East]

I feel like if he ends up enjoying it he is going to turn into a super simp/trick. He never learned how to get it on his own. If he doesn't like it he's probably going to feel miserable he wasted his time with some random

Until he gets a girlfriend he's always going to be paying for it in some way or another. Dating costs money. Multiple dates cost more. That's just how it is. Spend $250 a month and get a half decent in call escort. No games, no bs. He can even be specific. Then once he has a couple goes he might have a bit more confidence and less awkwardness about sex. Hopefully he'll be able to land a partner and keep it moving. But at 37, come on. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting and different result. He needs to switch it up or give it up.

 

[ImLionyall]

What kind of work do you do

I worked in telemarketing and late night warehouse shyt when I was working 17 hrs a day. I'm in finance now.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Yeah every now and then. I'm not asexual, I just can't get ass. Tbh I stop trying after college and a did nothing but work 16- 18 hrs a day until only recently.

I feel like everytime I see a fine broad I get motivation to go out and approach

 

[Freedman]

Damn OP hate it had to be you

 

[humminbird]

At this point, you must be a VIP member of #uglygang, you're severely socially inept, or you're really trying not to have sex.

He could be a recluse though

 

[Cobalt Sire]

Grow your facial hair, put some effort into your style of clothing, start doing pushups, bodyweight squats, and pullups regularly, lose weight if you have to, and put effort into meeting women. Even at my fattest, there were opportunities to date, though rare, so it's not all about looks There are women out there, especially in their 30s, that really want a man, no matter how much they say they don't need one.

I imagine at 37, you have your finances in order, right? Your own place, a car, and money for a date is all you need. This racist country had me broke for a very long time. No one put me on, grew up in a city with zero economic opportunities, zero night life, horrible public transit with nothing in walking distance, and parents didn't help. With time and experience came wisdom. I figured out how to properly purchase (what to look out for) and maintain a car, went to the 6 certs forum for ideas, got free money from credit card rewards and savings accounts, and took advantage of crisis times lol.

Anyway, time is of the essence. Live this life before it's over.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

we can't count 2 of those years

most people arent fukkin like that during a pandemic

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Waiting til 50 to give up the yams… shyt like that would push me to be an atheist lmao

At 50 what's the point? p*ssy already dry and expired at that age with menopause and all

 

[getmoney310cpt]

If by choice very commendable and I aspire for that type of self discipline..if not by choice just buy some ass your first time girl won’t be your wife y’all will fall out so if you waiting for something special yeah that’s a dub

 

[Artificial Intelligence]

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[HarlemHottie]

 

[Cladyclad]

This dude a walking time bomb

breh stay in tune with your local news

 

[Ghost Utmost]

OP I had to do this shyt after my divorce and I am gonna have to do it AGAIN at damn near 50.

I just started going out by myself. Picked a spot and just showed up every weekend. After a few years I had "dated" a handful of chicks I met at the spot and even cuffed one.

Starting Friday in fact. I'm gonna pull up after work and I am gonna treat it like a job throughout the Summer.

These chicks definitely not gonna come find me