Who on the Coli has been a virgin the longest? (30yrs for me) [UPDATE: now ̶3̶̶̶3̶̶̶ ̶3̶4̶ ̶3̶5̶ ̶ 3̶6̶ 3̶7̶ 3̶̶̶8̶ ̶3̶9̶ 40]

[Child_Of_God]

Last night we was out, was this group of shortys. Diverse mix, Asian black white. I’m spittin at the Asian one and I can tell my boy was feelin a type of way cuz she wasn’t paying him no mind.

He short and skinny, I’m 6’3 w broad shoulders and arms that fill a shirt

Anytime I try to get him in the gym w me “I’m busy bro”, playing Xbox..that’s why he not pulling

So you NEVER seen a women showed interest in your friend at all? I think he’s better off with approaching older women since the younger ones tend to be more superficial.

 

[BigSteppa]

Last night we was out, was this group of shortys. Diverse mix, Asian black white. I’m spittin at the Asian one and I can tell my boy was feelin a type of way cuz she wasn’t paying him no mind.

He short and skinny, I’m 6’3 w broad shoulders and arms that fill a shirt

Anytime I try to get him in the gym w me “I’m busy bro”, playing Xbox..that’s why he not pulling

Tell ya homie pull his socks up shyt is a numbers game and u ain’t gon get nun if you don’t put urself out there.

 

[Dave24]

35 Year old virgin checking in. Am socially awkward and have social anxiety.

 

[Dave24]

The real issue here is self confidence and the ability to connect with other people.

It’s not your looks.
It’s not your money.
It’s not your mouthpiece.
It’s not your status.
It’s not your body count.

You can pull women if you just relax and accept who you are. Obviously you gotta put some work in: wash your ass, lose weight, gain some muscle, become good at something, read, etc. However you need to improve yourself, do it. Do it for you and the game will come to you if you let it.

How do i learn how to connect to people and accept who i am?

 

[85 East]

35 Year old virgin checking in. Am socially awkward and have social anxiety.

You know you can pay for an escort right? If not find yourself an equally awkward partner

 

[Dave24]

You know you can pay for an escort right? If not find yourself an equally awkward partner

I still live with my mother and work a minimum wage job.

 

[Heavy_Handz]

Too many illegitimate fathers in the game for me to ever complain about grown men who are virgins

 

[Consigliere]

How do i learn how to connect to people and accept who i am?

Good question. It seems like your social anxiety is blocking you from doing more than having sex. Even though it’s all connected.

You gotta deal with that issue first. Talk to a professional. Get some hobbies and skills. Find something to be proud about.

 

[fact]

How do i learn how to connect to people and accept who i am?

To be honest, the very best thing you can do is try to not focus or obsess over women and friends, find something that makes you feel good about yourself, get really good at it, build up your self esteem, and you are there. I have found (and this is just me) that self confidence, no matter how you look, Will get you far. I landed my wife, who was way out of my league, because I brought her around people and places that I felt the most comfortable, and she told me she fell for me because she loved my confidence and the version of me when I’m around my people.

 

[MikelArteta]

I still live with my mother and work a minimum wage job.

Amsterdam
50 euros

 

[CopiousX]

So you NEVER seen a women showed interest in your friend at all? I think he’s better off with approaching older women since the younger ones tend to be more superficial.

@semicko82 , looks like this nikka is still missing.



I hope he didn't make to big a deal out of this. The world is so big and sex is such a tiny part of it. If this dude is still with us, I hope he finds fulfillment elsewhere in life.

I still live with my mother and work a minimum wage job.

Congratulations on getting it back. Full hours again?

I know Kemp lifted restrictions a while back so that should help significantly.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I think I had a chance with this chick at Subway.

I went in during a break. Talked with the girl behind the register when it was just me and her in the store.

Went the next day to get a wrap and their register was down, so she gave it to me for free.

I came back later on to pay for it and she told me she was gunna pay for it herself.

Maybe she was just being nice, but I don't even work in that city anymore so the likelihood of me going back is slim.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I think I had a chance with this chick at Subway.

I went in during a break. Talked with the girl behind the register when it was just me and her in the store.

Went the next day to get a wrap and their register was down, so she gave it to me for free.

I came back later on to pay for it and she told me she was gunna pay for it herself.

Maybe she was just being nice, but I don't even work in that city anymore so the likelihood of me going back is slim.

Breh you gotta jump on chances like thatyears before I lost my V (@18) I had too many opportunities to do so. Sometimes we get in our own way

 

[TXTrill1]

You fukkin idiot that's what I said. p*ssy is essential for reproduction not recreation. Damn I'm tired of you stupid motherfukers on the coli with no reading comprehension

p*ssy is essential for reproduction

 

[MBwithadream]

Sex is definitely a need. You got men who kill, commit massacres, commit suicide (or feel suicidal)over their struggles with women. Every human-being has a need to feel desired, wanted & accepted. If those needs are not met, you feel like a reject or worthless.

That why you need Jesus