Who created this lie that white people like dark skin better than black men?

[TMNT4000]

And you know why? Because they have SO MANY options to choose from in the BC. Why would they want to date out?

Are talking about dark skin women? if so, you should know by now the excuses they use on why they want to date outside they're race.

 

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Is this a joke?
All I see in this post is that black men may sh*t on dark skin women,but they don't do it at the same rate as white men.At the end of the day,the way the black community treats dark skin girls is not okay.I feel like some of y'all are trying to justify the way dark skin girls are treated.

& This thing of black girls getting "bottom of the barrel," white men is not a "thing," nor "trend."How can you say they are bottom of the barrel?Is it all based on looks?That white man she pulled may have a nice personality, nice job,etc.

What he is saying is that most white men don't like dark skinned Black women. That's MOST! The one's that are predisposed to Black women may though. Most White women don't like dark skinned Black men either!

 

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Are talking about dark skin women? if so, you should know by now the excuses they use on why they want to date outside they're race.

No, I'm talking about light skinned Black women.

 

[TMNT4000]

No, I'm talking about light skinned Black women.

I rarely see light skin women date out or praise non-black men, rarely see them promote IR.

 

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In my experience in talking with the average non-black male (Whites, Middle Easterners, Indians, Latinos etc)...when the issue does come up, most of em do not find dark skinned black women attractive.

For the most part, the only type of black women that they will date are the ones who basically look like their own or as close to the protoypical white woman (i.e. skinny, big boobs, small butt, smaller facial features, straight hair, very light complexion).

The few that do date them or have any type of preference for them are really a needle in a haystack. I think it's so rare that in some strange way it gets noticed a lot more and even appears to be somewhat brave and heroic in the eyes of other dark skinned black women.

From what I've observed, black women will willfully ignore the 99.9% of non-black males that wouldn't date em, but are very vocal of hyping up that .1% that will.

Many White men are somewhat curious about what SEX with a black women is like but thats the extent of their interest.

 

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I rarely see light skin women date out or praise non-black men, rarely see them promote IR.

Go back to my original post. I said most lightskinned girls don't date out because they have too many options inside the black community.

 

[TMNT4000]

Go back to my original post. I said most lightskinned girls don't date out because they have too many options inside the black community.

Wait, I don't get why you quoted me at your original post, it seem me and you agree, what's the problem?.

 

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Because the poster tried to claim that when white men do date dark skin black women it's because they can't get anyone else.& By trash,what do you mean?Looks wise? money wise? How do you determine that they are "trash?"What makes one "trash?"

& I haven't been caught doing anything.You and others are just trying to justify how dark skin black women are treated in the black community/Y'all are trying to make it seem "okay," &you can miss me with that.

I do agree that somewhat about someone being trash. Basically just like who likes you within reason.

 

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Then why do so many posters or black people in general go so hard in terms of black women being a fetish to white men?So many posters try to shame black women who date white men with things like "he only wants you for sex," etc.But black men fetishsize different groups of women all the time,& not just with white women(even though it's most vocal/degrading with them).

Why are you so naive? MOST Whites don't a serious relationship with Blacks. Most don't want ANY relationship with blacks.

I always wondered how white women felt when black dudes call them easy,ho's, & associate them with giving head,etc.

1) A few fetishize black men even more so than Black men fetishizes them.
2) Most avoid Black men like the plague anyway so they most likely don't care what we associate them with.

 

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We don't fetishize white women sexually. Black men date white women because of European beauty standards and self hate, belief that she won't have an attitude, the black dude would be too lame for black girls etc.

It's white men who fetishize white women with black men. 80% of black men interracial porn is bought by white men and they'll pay black men to fukk their wives like @Chris.B was doing. Don't be proud of being a fetish miss

THIS! Bravo !! Finally someone sees how this thing works!!!

 

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This woman got wifed up by a good white man who accepted her past mistakes put a ring on her finger and bought her a high end car, she is now living the life in dubai. These women would of done worse if they only dated black men.

Dude is trick for real. My hat goes off to her she caught a live one.

 

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I agree with @A Woman's Opinion that White men generally tend to treat shades/textures of Black equally from my observation, and are less colorstruck than African and AA men. I've worked in Europe and seen men date/marry Senegalese, Cameroon women in France like it was nothing. Even the pervs patronized Black/Latin American prostitutes over Eastern European immigrants(very cheap) or locals. Used to buy African products from Ghanian lady whose husband was a German engineer. She spent time in the states and hated it. Her daughter models, is brown and looks Senegalese, dates older rich Europeans. Befriended this one sister was half Danish and AA(product of an absentee Black service member and a single mother from Denmark) she married a Swiss lawyer who approached her on a cruise. Another woman, dark brown from St Kitts and married an organic farmer.

Of course the women were attractive, fit and if heavier had pretty faces(as if being overweight and or dark is death sentence to loneliness). Also, they were mostly educated or well traveled. The African and AA men I encountered, wifed anything White off the street.
Many white people are infactuated with dark skin and at the way that Blacks(healthy ones) age. AA men seem to be the most colorstruck under the guise of being indiscriminate daters. One can easily compare Black Mens Magazine centerfolds to the Ebony Man/Essence mags.

Your examples where anecdotal. You most white don't blacks and most Blacks do date and marryy other blacks. So how are we more colorstuck ?

 

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& The fact of the matter is that black women have options,just like other women,contrary to this myth that if they don't date black men then they are doomed to a life of loneliness.

There is nothing wrong with being alone...

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

False! Do me a favor, get to know some professional White escorts and let them tell you what white men say about Black women. Watch them and see what transpires if they offer to bring " a black girlfriend" for a double date request. You'll be like .

I was speaking about the few white men who like black women. Not the ones who obviously don't.

 

[Outlaw]

This idea that "blonde hair + blue eyes," is the "redbone," in the white community is also a lie.So white men sh*t on brunettes at the same way black men sh* on dark skin women?White men make songs saying "beautiful brunette woman,I think that b*tch look better blonde?"& "I can't stand no brunette ass b*tch?" White men go out there way to say "you look pretty for a brunette?"






I'll wait.

Nah but they do say that about gingers