I totally agree.
I can admit when I was a child - I thought of them as innocent (in regards to slavery) and didn't have anything to do with the enslavement of our ancestors. Based off of televised movies and books that always presented them as bystanders who didn't have anything to do with it.
When I got to college - I finally started hearing the real stories -- and then a couple of years ago - I really got into history - and I found out how demonic they were.
These white women were extremely violent and brutal to men, women and child -- young and elderly.
There were many White women ran and owned plantations -- but we rarely hear stories about them.
I think if Black men and Black women knew the truth about White women -- they would back off of them -- and see them for who they are --and who they come from.
You can find stories for day in many first hand witness accounts and narratives.
Theodore Dwight Weld, 1803-1895. American Slavery As It Is: Testimony of a Thousand Witnesses.