They say it's all our own fault, we do it so they can't help themselves.
Most white people using that word want some type of inclusion or acceptance from black people, they look up to them in a way and want to emulate what they think is cool, especially when it's said in that context not the ER but the GA.
That's really when it comes down to. I`d never use that word for a million reasons, and that's one of them, ain't looking up to nobody or seeking inclusion or coolness.