How come no one calls em out on making another human being a fetish?
When I was younger, I thought "Cool someone likes me for me" I wasn't woke at all. Thinking back on it, they all had father issues and I feel like they used me to "get back" at their parents for whatever reason. I had some who (later on I realized) wanted the stereotypical black guy they saw in movies and rap videos.
Fast forward a few years, I legit had a (white) girl tell me she liked the idea of me more than me myself . I curbed her so fast. Then went back then walked away that same night, deleting that number for the last time.
My point is how come people cape,simp,etc for people who never respected you to being with? Who only see your entire race as a sexual object? I don't know if I could ever date a white girl again and being more aware now, how can you? Even back then, if she said somethin racial, I wouldn't just take it. So many fights.
Had a white girl tell me "It's hard being white ya know? Especially a girl in these times. In this area man, it's crazy"
I'm like maybe..."
"Hol up "
"What?! "
Best time I've ever had was with this Filipino/black nerdy chick. We both had way too many demons, but I like to think she gave me a new perspective on dating. I never thought about race when dating, thinking it wasn't a big deal. As much as race shouldn't be an issue, it is. It's our reality and the amount of times I've been threatened and make a joke in front of their families, it hardly seems worth it.
I recently lost a friend to the PAWG life, so it got me thinkin
When I was younger, I thought "Cool someone likes me for me" I wasn't woke at all. Thinking back on it, they all had father issues and I feel like they used me to "get back" at their parents for whatever reason. I had some who (later on I realized) wanted the stereotypical black guy they saw in movies and rap videos.
Fast forward a few years, I legit had a (white) girl tell me she liked the idea of me more than me myself . I curbed her so fast. Then went back then walked away that same night, deleting that number for the last time.
My point is how come people cape,simp,etc for people who never respected you to being with? Who only see your entire race as a sexual object? I don't know if I could ever date a white girl again and being more aware now, how can you? Even back then, if she said somethin racial, I wouldn't just take it. So many fights.
Had a white girl tell me "It's hard being white ya know? Especially a girl in these times. In this area man, it's crazy"
I'm like maybe..."
"Hol up "
"What?! "
Best time I've ever had was with this Filipino/black nerdy chick. We both had way too many demons, but I like to think she gave me a new perspective on dating. I never thought about race when dating, thinking it wasn't a big deal. As much as race shouldn't be an issue, it is. It's our reality and the amount of times I've been threatened and make a joke in front of their families, it hardly seems worth it.
I recently lost a friend to the PAWG life, so it got me thinkin