While drunk, my coworker told me his fiance dumped him because of his salary

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Since 8th grade....off and on, he said. :merchant:

I'm starting to suspect it is less about his salary and more about her just wanting to do her. WOmen always need an excuse to exit.

Plus the on and off status gives her the security of knowing that he will take her back whenever she decides to come back.

He needs to cut her off completely.
 

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If she was a sista would she have done the same thing?:usure:

I'm starting to suspect it is less about his salary and more about her just wanting to do her. WOmen always need an excuse to exit.

Plus the on and off status gives her the security of knowing that he will take her back whenever she decides to come back.

He needs to cut her off completely.

i told him it was better for him.

he need a ride or die chick.

and they text randomly, but both are single, but not getting together unless he changes careers.

he said his job is he No. 1 love though :manny:
 

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Since 8th grade:leon:

Maybe she got prettier and he became swagless and ugly. Or maybe his dikk game aint on point. I'm going with the latter:youngsabo:
 

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Not unusual but sad. I don't know what her whole story is.

There's plenty of reverse Sugar Daddy marriages (woman makes more than the man, man doesn't even have to work if he doesn't want to) and the woman is happy.
 

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It is none of her business how much you make. Women ask you what is your occupation to get an idea of how much you make. Telling her what your occupation is the most you should tell her in regards to your finances.

:sitdown:

If I ask a dude his occupation it's because I wanna know his occupation. Not all females are money hungry leeches.
 

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It is none of her business how much you make. Women ask you what is your occupation to get an idea of how much you make. Telling her what your occupation is the most you should tell her in regards to your finances.

Yep
All I tell women is that I work in the corporate world, I could be a janitor making 5 bucks a hour or a CEO making 7 figures

None of their business

My credit is good and I don't need your money so none of your business , only person who knows my salary is my manager, hr and my parents because they are my beneficiaries and my work insurance policy matches my yearly salary
 

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:sitdown:

If I ask a dude his occupation it's because I wanna know his occupation. Not all females are money hungry leeches.

I didn't make that statement to imply that women are money hungry. It is simply information that gives people a basic idea of how much the other person possibly makes.
 

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Oh.

Since 8th grade? She is out for some NEW dikk. I don't care what your dikk game is like, you bang the same person from puberty thru mid 20s your ass is gonna be DYING for something new.

Back to the money thing: Here's the problem with someone making $100K having a mate who makes $35K (and trust me: this was FUGGIN ME about 3 years ago): She wants to go to France on a whim, some once in a lifetime type shyt. He can't afford to go. She automatically has to pay for both for everything like that. Meanwhile her peers are jet setting all over like it's nothing. She's driving a new Benz, he's driving a dinged up 99 Accord. For Christmas she can afford to buy him a replacement for his 99 Accord while he gets her $400 worth of stuff. It's just lopsided. People who make $100K don't hang anywhere near people who make $35K. They go to different stores, resturaunts, vacation spots etc...

I ain't getting rich now but I experienced a significant pay increase since then. If I happen to waste $50 I don't even bat an eyelash now. At my previous pay rate I would have freaked the f*** out. They are just worlds apart. It could work if she was super gung ho about him, but look at Steadman's azz. Oprah could live hundreds of lifetimes on what she has and has no kids to worry about but she STILL won't split it with that n****.
 

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it could be money issues...

but not every chick with like/meet/date/marry folk who make over 100

she lost.

but there is more to the story...

why did she leave?
 

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Is is strictly about his salary or is it about the way he handles his money?

I personally wouldn't dump a dude because of his salary, but I would dump him if he does not know how to handle money (e.g. he is always broke between pay checks, doesn't know how to budget, etc). Money is one of the major reason that marriages fail; therefore, I can't be with a man who can't manage what he has.
 
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