When you date down this is what happens | Jill Scott Divorce

[Jimi Swagger]

Cliffs:

• Discusses Jill Scott first having a child by her employee and her current divorce to a man with 5 children from previous relationships - the husband was happy with the arrangement until things went sour and now he's complaining because she's not taking care of him and 5 children
• Touches on Mary J Blige and Kelly Rowland marrying their employees (managers) and Mary's current alimony payments of 30K to ex husband
• Black women claim they want an equal, however, don't really respect men who aren't providers
• Strong, independent, archetype in the family is to blame, also men who take advantage
• Men eventually go for younger women since they feel emasculated and are not up to par with their women peers. Uses Wendy Williams husband using her money to cheat with a younger woman and buying luxury items.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Disagree.

A person will either screw you over or they won't. Whether they earn more or less than you, have kids or don't, more successful or not, will not determine whether they are or are not shyt at being human.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Disagree.

A person will either screw you over or they won't. Whether they earn more or less than you, have kids or don't, more successful or not, will not determine whether they are or are not shyt at being human.

Having a breh with ambition, goals and ability to provide or at least meet brehettes equally kinda defines character. Also, if he has a bunch of kids, depending on how many, and the type of woman they are by, that also defines what type of person his is, his abilities to make sound decisions. The physical and mental health issues that exists with Black Americans aren't just diet alone, in my opinion and part of the reason for obesity and hypertension. An adult male doesn't want to be coddled and controlled.

 

[Larry Lambo]

He probably had hella mouthpiece/game.

Should have went for the socially awkward but successful doctor/tech guy.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Nah. We just like new p*ssy. Especially if it's a fine young thang and we been screwing your same old box for years.

 

[FromBillionsCameOne]

Disagree.

A person will either screw you over or they won't. Whether they earn more or less than you, have kids or don't, more successful or not, will not determine whether they are or are not shyt at being human.

Haha so the circumstances don't change a thing? That's idealistic bs

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Haha so the circumstances don't change a thing? That's idealistic bs

Circumstances such as?

 

[FromBillionsCameOne]

Circumstances such as?

you said a person will screw you over or they won't as if circumstances don't play a factor like all the things that you listed

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

you said a person will screw you over or they won't as if circumstances don't play a factor like all the things that you listed

Give me an example where circumstances are the explanation and not the person being shyt.

 

[FromBillionsCameOne]

Give me an example where circumstances are the explanation and not the person being shyt.

I'm saying if some doesn't screw you over how do you know that they wouldn't under the right circumstances? I just don't think it's as cut and dry as they will or they won't

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I'm saying if some doesn't screw you over how do you know that they wouldn't under the right circumstances? I just don't think it's as cut and dry as they will or they won't

Ah okay. No need to be so absolute about perspectives I suppose. There are some really tough situations and tests that we hope never to have to face (e.g. feeling forced by hunger or fear to do things we're not proud of)

 

[FromBillionsCameOne]

Ah okay. No need to be so absolute about perspectives I suppose. There are some really tough situations and tests that we hope never to have to face (e.g. feeling forced by hunger or fear to do things we're not proud of)

Exactly. That's what I was trying to convey haha

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Exactly. That's what I was trying to convey haha

Reckon you also shouldn't be so absolute about circumstances. Extreme tests and survival instinct aside, people generally are who they are through and through.

 

[FromBillionsCameOne]

Reckon you also shouldn't be so absolute about circumstances. Extreme tests and survival instinct aside, people generally are who they are through and through.

I wasn't extreme about anything just the opposite. Most post people have never been tested by their fantasy so yeah ok give them the benefit of the doubt but come on

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I wasn't extreme about anything just the opposite. Most post people have never been tested by their fantasy so yeah ok give them the benefit of the doubt but come on

Ah so you meant circumstances as in temptation? What you want is right in front of you, do you take it...?