Dr. Narcisse
Veteran
there are just somethings that's never gonna be cool with me.
Lol what did you do?
I didnt play my cards right
there are just somethings that's never gonna be cool with me.
Lol what did you do?
Hmmm...
I don't want to say 3 red flags, because for me 1 of the red flags can be enough.
My number 1 pet peeve is being flaky first sign of that they are cut off.
Ignoring me/playing games. I'm not chasing anyone.
Being too aggresive.
Arrogance.
Trying to play me like I'm stupid
No chemistry.
etc...
Such a fine line with ladies.
I'm not the type to say he didn't reply within 20 min, an 1 hr or even that day he is ignoring me. Although if it takes someone a day that gets slight side eye. You get the benefit of the doubt. I am bad with texts so I understand. But days? You might get another courtesy text but after that If we are supposed to have a date they know and I know and when the time comes they don't respond, I'm ghost and they will be ignored.
As for aggression. If I am like no, and a guy still presses...I mean a firm no. If I have to say, I'm not playing, drop it or anything like that it's too much. We obviously aren't on the same page regardless of what waters he maybe trying to test. If i'm not trying to do something, or take it somewhere he is, then we should stop talking then and he can go find what he wants.
Sounds familiarI'm not the type to say he didn't reply within 20 min, an 1 hr or even that day he is ignoring me. Although if it takes someone a day that gets slight side eye. You get the benefit of the doubt. I am bad with texts so I understand. But days? You might get another courtesy text but after that If we are supposed to have a date they know and I know and when the time comes they don't respond, I'm ghost and they will be ignored.
As for aggression. If I am like no, and a guy still presses...I mean a firm no. If I have to say, I'm not playing, drop it or anything like that it's too much. We obviously aren't on the same page regardless of what waters he maybe trying to test. If i'm not trying to do something, or take it somewhere he is, then we should stop talking then and he can go find what he wants.
Hmmm...
I don't want to say 3 red flags, because for me 1 of the red flags can be enough.
My number 1 pet peeve is being flaky first sign of that they are cut off.
Ignoring me/playing games. I'm not chasing anyone.
Being too aggresive.
Arrogance.
Trying to play me like I'm stupid
No chemistry.
etc...
Sounds familiar
I really want to chase him too. Self-respect is winning this battle though.:Iaintinit:
I admitted my flaws.
Never girl, nev-er
I really want to chase him too. Self-respect is winning this battle though.
But do you learn from them:Iaintinit:
I admitted my flaws.
Go ahead and get yo manI really want to chase him too. Self-respect is winning this battle though.
Yea I do...But do you learn from them
Hmmm...
I don't want to say 3 red flags, because for me 1 of the red flags can be enough.
My number 1 pet peeve is being flaky first sign of that they are cut off.
Ignoring me/playing games. I'm not chasing anyone.
Being too aggresive.
Arrogance.
Trying to play me like I'm stupid
No chemistry.
etc...