the right man can pretty much fukk her the first night. fukking on the first date doesn't make her a ho.What kind of girls y'all dating If she doesn't let you hit the first night it's a good sign, it means she's not a ho. If she doesn't let you hit the tenth night, then yeah, you may need to consider your options.
just cause she fukked you on the first date doesn't mean she's doing that to everybody just cause she didn't fukk you on the first date doesn't mean if the right guy comes along she wouldn't do it. doesn't even mean she doesn't do it all the time.
people like you are the reason women repress their sexuality in fear of getting judged. she doesn't really want to wait but she does just so she can try to influence how you think of her and for many guys it works. you shouldn't be fooled by it though.