IMO, "dikkwatching" is fine when the woman is objectively ugly or obese or a bad person. I can't remember what show it was, I think it was 1Klb sisters, but one of those whales was dating a black man and that disgusted me all the way to my core especially since racists use that screencap online to push the "black men have low standards" stereotype. On a related note, plenty of people here and on twitter were judging (dikk wathcing) that old man with that fat viet lady
Speaking of, I'll also admit that, as "feminine" as it is, I'm perturbed when a successful black man dates/marries a woman (regardless of race) who doesn't match his wealth and success. Looks or money wise. Like Khaby lame, or Michael Jordan. Being one of the greatest basketballers in the world, my wife would be miss Brazil or miss Colombia. not some C list model.
But what really bothers me is that simps and black women have no problem calling out black men but don't come at black women that date out with the same energy. Way too many athletes married to black women to be whining about the few that aren't. Or to be pushing some agenda. Meanwhile there are hardly even any black models married to black American men right now, only one I can think of atm is that bedwench single mom.