That's where you guys have it confused. The ACT does not make it simping, the person you're doing it for, or why you're doing it makes it simping.
When you're buying flowers, talking on the phone for hours, going out to nice dinners, having PDA, Etc with a woman that is actually worth it and cares about you, you're just cupcaking.
Nothing wrong with that. However, if the woman that you're doing all of this for is not your girl, is not worth it, and / or you're just doing it for some ass, now you're simping