What's the most important thing in a relationship to you?

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Love na that shyt only goes so far and can cloud your judgement to where u wont use common sense

Trust na i never trust some one 100% around 90% cuz i never put anything past somebody but i'll trust them enough to have respect and hope they dont lie too me or else they gonna be like this


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COMMUNICATION with that u can solve problems before they arise with that arguments wont happen as often with that you grow more love out of it with that u can grow more trust
 

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Balance.

I don't need a woman to cook/clean/be financially responsible.

It infuriates me that women expect to trade that for their own financial independence.

If we all learned how to be ADULTS instead of men/women doing gender role playing, this world would be a whole lot different.

And yes, I know it's a pipe dream. There's too many benefits to gender role playing. The only time something is said to the contrary is when the weaknesses of each role is brought to the forefront by the opposite sex.

But the last thing that we as adults should be thinking is "Men do this/women do this". Outside of sex, I mean.
Its definitely a pipe dream but its one I have too. Yeah it will never go away cause too dudes like feeling like :cape: Ego will get you all the time. Also most dudes like using the money as a means of trying to control the relationship but if I gotta do that I don't really even want her. For chicks why would they give up being taken care of for really doing nothing in current times cause that's the "gentlemenly" thing to do. The traditional shyt made more sense when chicks weren't making money but now they are I feel things need to be more reflective of the times we currently live in.
 
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