Whats the ideal salary you want your man to have before you will get married on LSA...

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Not too many black men making 80-100k though
Not many people make 80-100k period. Once you are at that level and you dont spend beyond your means you're living on easy mode as far as relationships are concerned.

My friends and I are over educated with the money finally adding up and women throw p*ssy at you once you get to that point. $150k+ territory is when married women, women that'll swear they love their boyfriends try to trade up for you.

These hoes aint loyal. And you dont even got to be millionaire.
 

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I see no problem with a female asking for a man who makes around what she makes.

If she makes 60K, nothing wrong with wanting somebody to be making Around 50K-70K. A man should have no problem with that because if she makes way more than you, she is going to throw it in your face... Haha
Not all women throw salary in a dudes face. I would like to make $100k+ as a couple. Also just because a man starts off making less doesn't mean he will always make less.
 

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very true mrs teedot.

but



chicks who put a ton of weight on salary and related things.........


are never worth shyt at the end of the day.


i dated a bunch of broke bytches... and some 100K + women.... Some of the women i work with..... feel like the bothers and cacs I work with are shallow or just go for bottom of the barrel hoes.

Successful women are always complaining. But although the p*ssy/mouth is good at times--- they usually have lost something in college or pursuing a career or something. idk what it is......
They lost that spark that young thots or smuts have. Men don't give a fukk what you do or who you are.. All they want is loyalty and for you to pretend they are loyal to you and not stress them.

They will post on LSA until they are 48 and lonely (or getting cheated on).

Every nikka I associate with makes well over 100K.... We don't want these hoes who talk like the ones in that LSA thread:scusthov:
Well I think that thread was probably harmless. We all probably want something in life that can be a bit unrealistic that doesn't mean that's all we will go for. I could say I would want a man making 80k for an example. But that doesn't mean I can't be happy with someone making 30k. I think the money factor depends on several things.
How they were raised
Where they are headed in life
Their careers
Location..


If I lived in an expensive city then of course it would be ideal for my future husband to make more. But if I lived in a cheaper city it wouldn't be necessary.
 

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I agree...if a woman is pulling her weight financially she has every right to DEMAND he makes something close to her salary or more.

My problem is the broke ass women who want a white knight making 6 figures..:rudy:
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Cats out here focusing on what you make...

When the only number that matters is what you keep...

The 2nd most financially well off I ever been...

Was when I was working as a lowly IT helpdesk dude...

around 20 an hour

was staying in a shyt hole apartment that was 450 a month

driving my old car that was paid off

bills were around 350 0 400 a month (phone, electricity, cable, car insurance)

I make a lot more now but with a mortgage and other stuff I am just barely saving more than I was then and my salary has damn near tripled if I include my bonus
Yeah living below your means is a factor people often ignore too...making 60k in the south may afford you a better lifestyle than 80-90k would in NY.
 

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Not many people make 80-100k period. Once you are at that level and you dont spend beyond your means you're living on easy mode as far as relationships are concerned.

My friends and I are over educated with the money finally adding up and women throw p*ssy at you once you get to that point. $150k+ territory is when married women, women that'll swear they love their boyfriends try to trade up for you.

These hoes aint loyal. And you dont even got to be millionaire.

I remember watching that movie "Soul Food" when that nikka beat the shyt out of that dude in the work cafeteria.

Remember he hooked dude up with a job because he knew dude's woman?

He hit him with that, "I make $80K a year" a line. When I was a little dude, I thought that was a lot of money. I was making that shyt in my early 20s.
 

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I was the career college student...my CV at the time was damn impressive...and I can tell you that without recommendations and nowing people with pull I would have ended up in a situation like that...:whew:

I know too many ppl working bs sales jobs right now grinding way harder than me to make sorry cash. i got my job through networking too otherwise i'd be selling insurance or car rentals with the rest of em
 
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