What’s the coli definition of a High Value Man

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Well bitcoin is at $26k+, so right now I'm going to say a Jamaican accent and a Big dikk, but when it crashes back to $5k, I'll say a hardworking, faithful, romantic man that takes care of his family


For some reason coli thinks it's this

wearing a lot of "nikka trinkets"

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Having a job

 

[Heafcliffe]

6 certs, 6 figures, 8 years married

Fixed for me

 

[Pseudonym]

Intelligent
Responsible
Caring
Faithful
Honest
Funny/likes to have a good time
Non dog-set

looking good helps too but, someone can get in a horrible accident (my husband) so their looks may change but they’re the same person.

I’m really a heart / soul person. If I’m to live my life with you , you gotta be a good person.

 

[saturn7]

A man who positively contributes to his family and his community, regardless of status or attention received.

The blue collar fathers who never get credit for holding it down and sacrificing for their families.

 

[Spectre]

It's real simple. High value men are self actualized men

1. Basic necessities: place of their own (not a drifter or hobo), car, phone etc
2. Secured: secure job, good health, good savings, responsible, good credit
3. Connection: good family ties, real friendships, real relationships, no bad blood
4. Self esteem: strong mental game, good communicator, respected by peers, decent achievements, mature, inner moral code, sense of right and wrong, principles
5. Actualized: Creator, Open minded, understands both sides, creator, strives for legacy and making life better for others,

 

[Koba St]

It's real simple. High value men are self actualized men

1. Basic necessities: place of their own (not a drifter or hobo), car, phone etc
2. Secured: secure job, good health, good savings, responsible, good credit
3. Connection: good family ties, real friendships, real relationships, no bad blood
4. Self esteem: strong mental game, good communicator, respected by peers, decent achievements, mature, inner moral code, sense of right and wrong, principles
5. Actualized: Creator, Open minded, understands both sides, creator, strives for legacy and making life better for others,

 

[CinnaSlim]

@paperbag
@Elle Seven
@Saltmoney
@Booksnrain
@CinnaSlim
@Speaking Womanese
@Caca-faat
@Nightmare
@Pseudonym
@HarlemHottie
@Lady.Libra.

U got to ask coli woman that

One who is valued highly.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It’s subjective. What’s valuable to one person is worthless to another.

High value to means you have the basics (transportation if you live in a city where it’s necessary, your own home, career) and some other attributes that make you desirable, and your personality isn’t so insufferable that it doesn’t negate those attributes. Some people can look good on paper but be absolute miserable fukks.

From there it varies from female to female.
For me, it’s pretty simple. I have to be moderately attracted to you, you must be intelligent, kind, and honest. And please for the love of god, be positive, sane and not bitter. Everybody has gone through pain in their lives. But some of us are working through it and still finding the strength to raise our heads at the end of the day. So the last thing you want to come home to everyday is a nasty dude who is more concerned with trying to keep you down due to his insecurities or who wants to play games or lie, cheat or steal. I personally don’t care how much you got in the bank or how big your dikk is or how fine you are, if you are not mentally and emotionally sound or harbor unhealthy ideas about women, the last place you need to be is in a relationship. Those issues totally negate all the other shyt you bring because I’m not dating who I’m with out of economic necessity or desperation. I’m with who I’m with for sane, normal, relaxing, supportive, stress alleviating companion. That’s what determines your high value to me and any other woman with some sense. If you bring stress to my otherwise peaceful and loving world, your value is below zero. You literally subtract value from my life just being in my vicinity while adding nothing.