This is an issue with masculinity as a whole. Men are refusing to be as competitive as in previous years. It used to be that if you kept getting rejected you wouldn't just run to the internet and complain, you'd seek help. A man would get mentorship from another man and honest feedback with brainstorming solutions but there are corners of the web where men tell eachother to quit and just be mad at women for being overly picky.
Is it unfair that women expect you to be tall, good looking, well paid, tough yet sensitive, smarter than anyone she knows, and almost a mind reader? Yes. But ONLY if you don't have those standards for THEM. Its your responsibility to your future family to be the best you can be. If you just want sex and to just not do anything serious, find yourself a bustdown or an escort. Theres no shame in just admitting that and moving on. We really need to stop the bullshyt and just legalize and regulate sex work for those men who aren't actually interested in serious long term relationships.
Overnight that will eliminate the bitter hurt women that blame all men because they were used for sex and thrown away. It will eliminate online simping and destroy onlyfans and instagram 'modeling'. When a man can access sex anytime he wants, there's no incentive for him to mislead a woman into a relationship or to not be extremely selective with who he lets into his life.
If you want a girlfriend that could be a wife and mother you need to level up and be picky enough to filter out the women that don't meet your standards. This shyt used to be common sense, but the internet, all the offshoots of feminism, and absent fathers(due to death, divorce, incarceration, or crazy work schedules) have taken fathers out of the home and replaced them with digital father figures, message boards, and simps. Men globally are in a slump. More men going to prison, dropping out of school, killing themselves or giving up on life in other ways. shyt is sad and is leading to things like this.