What would make you believe that a guy loved you?

[BrokePhiBroke]

I'm reading this book.

And this woman's sister finance says he in love with her.

Now of course they are long lost sisters. Same father but he didn't raise one of them.

Which got me thinking...

What would make you believe that a guy loved you besides words?

 

[Chill]

If he's taking care of you, always making sure you are good before he is

 

[Aphrodite]

If he doesn't trash me and can keep a mellow and calm demeanor when he has every right to be mad because I was in the wrong or we are on the outs...
If he doesn't run off to tell his friends and family every time we have an issue to pit those folks against me.
If he is in situations with other women and he pays them dust when they are clearly trying for his attention.
(or if I've 'tested' him without his knowledge while he thinks I'm not present, but I am and he passed the test.)
Checking on me on a consistent basis.
Hugs, smiles, optimism.
When he comes to me 1st with whatever he is planning to do or how he feels instead of his friends or family.

 

[Raava]

His actions.

He actually listens to me, makes effort in our relationship and communication.

Encourages me.

Will give me/my interest his time even if they aren't his.

Sacrifices for me, willing to take care of me even though it's not necessary.

Doesn't down me and accepts me but also helps me become a better person. Supports my efforts trying to better myself but let's me know he loves me either way.

Honest with me, open with me. Shares with me.

Protective of me.

 

[VFib]

It's all about action with me. Anyone can say they love you but their actions say otherwise. Things I look for include respect. If there is no respect for me or the relationship, nothing else matters.

 

[HabitualChiller]

You know that a woman loves you when she drops what she's doing to answer your text messages...

 

[BigMan]

When you realize you can't relate to none of these posts

 

[Taadow]

You know that a woman loves you when she drops what she's doing to answer your text messages...

Nicca FOLLOW DIRECTIONS

she ain't aks you CHIT ABOUT WHAT A WOMAN DOES.


(these niccas, I tell ya...)

 

[HabitualChiller]

Nicca FOLLOW DIRECTIONS

she ain't aks you CHIT ABOUT WHAT A WOMAN DOES.


(these niccas, I tell ya...)

One more time in English, hoe nikka?

Just adding input from a guy. No reason for you to white knight. Im sure she doesn't mind...

 

[Buttercantmelt]

If he doesn't trash me and can keep a mellow and calm demeanor when he has every right to be mad because I was in the wrong or we are on the outs...
If he doesn't run off to tell his friends and family every time we have an issue to pit those folks against me.
If he is in situations with other women and he pays them dust when they are clearly trying for his attention.
(or if I've 'tested' him without his knowledge while he thinks I'm not present, but I am and he passed the test.)
Checking on me on a consistent basis.
Hugs, smiles, optimism.
When he comes to me 1st with whatever he is planning to do or how he feels instead of his friends or family.

His actions.

He actually listens to me, makes effort in our relationship and communication.

Encourages me.

Will give me/my interest his time even if they aren't his.

Sacrifices for me, willing to take care of me even though it's not necessary.

Doesn't down me and accepts me but also helps me become a better person. Supports my efforts trying to better myself but let's me know he loves me either way.

Honest with me, open with me. Shares with me.

Protective of me.

This.

 

[The Mad Titan]

His actions.

He actually listens to me, makes effort in our relationship and communication.

Encourages me.

Will give me/my interest his time even if they aren't his.

Sacrifices for me, willing to take care of me even though it's not necessary.

Doesn't down me and accepts me but also helps me become a better person. Supports my efforts trying to better myself but let's me know he loves me either way.

Honest with me, open with me. Shares with me.

Protective of me.

 

[Raava]

 

[MoonGoddess]

Being appreciative of me, showing me affection. Not being scared of opening up to me and expressing theirselves.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

If she loves my vocal tonality
If she refuses to hit the gym cause she knows I love bbws


Etc

Fred

 

[Rawhigh]

Checking in on me, physical affection, thoughtful gestures, actually wanting to talk to me