What the diffrence between interacial love and being a bedwench or bedbuck

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Interacial love two people from diff races together for a long time have a family etc.

Is bedwenching or bucking when u only date outside ur race.

U talk about black people in a negative light.

U fond over whiteness or whatever.

Yall got to explain

Reading people's comments on this site about IR dating, it seems that there really isn't a difference between IR dating/marriage and bedwenching/bucking.

Seems like some people equate dating outside ones race to being a bedwench/buck, regardless of why they are doing it.

Personally, I don't subscribe to using those disparaging terms towards those who chooses to date outside their race/ethnicity. I believe that everyone has a right to pick and choose their partners. I also believe that some people are attracted to a wide variety of people.

Perhaps someone can explain to me why someone who IR dates/marries can't say anything about Black relationships, but someone in a Black relationship has free reign to say whatever they want about someone in an IR relationship?
 

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imo Interracial love is when you genuinely like someone initially and fall in love with each other over time, organically.

Bedwenching and bucking on the otherhand is when black women/men view whites as superior and align their dating and mating preference to fit that agenda/ideology. In layman terms they have a crush on white men/women

By this definition, asian women are the biggest bedwench on earth with black women coming a distant second.
 

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Interracial relationships that KIM can be real love and I got no probs with


It’s when people show they non black spouse off like they better than their black counterparts that people have a problem with

Or create ideologies why white is better than people who look like them
 

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I think intent and origins are what separates the c00ns from the normal people.

As globalized as we are I fully expect a small amount of people to make connections with other people across a number of different racial/national/cultural/religious lines.

If u just vibing with someone and make a good connection, then cool.

But that's different from a.) literally seeking out non-blks, b.)treating them like they are prizes, c.)doing shyt for them you would never do for your own, d.) ignoring their bullshyt while being hypercritical of your own, e.) pretending that there was nobody in ur own race with similar qualities and f.) being brainwashed or color struck while trying to project that sickness onto larger community issues.

That's my only real issue with IR. It becomes a weapon for losers and lames to use against a community that rejected them....in some cases for good reason.

Also it falls in line with racism and many stereotype their own race to defend their dating preferences. Completely unacceptable.
 

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Most people just date people to date people. You won't know shyt about their relationship.Then you got your Stacey Dash's who make it plainly obvious she's on one.

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Building generational wealth is only possible with your own kind. Marriage isn't just about love and feelings. At this point. I can't see how any black person can still date white with how these people have made their feelings known about us. I say this as a former PAWGer.

Look at someone like Ben Carson. He has a black wife, black children, black Jesus in his home, but never speaks out about racial injustice. I think a part of it is the religious "love and forgive" bullshyt. Now take the extreme like Sheriff Clarke. That's full on performing for white people on tv for approval and money. Paris Dennard is another one.
 

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Reading people's comments on this site about IR dating, it seems that there really isn't a difference between IR dating/marriage and bedwenching/bucking.

Seems like some people equate dating outside ones race to being a bedwench/buck, regardless of why they are doing it.

Personally, I don't subscribe to using those disparaging terms towards those who chooses to date outside their race/ethnicity. I believe that everyone has a right to pick and choose their partners. I also believe that some people are attracted to a wide variety of people.

Perhaps someone can explain to me why someone who IR dates/marries can't say anything about Black relationships, but someone in a Black relationship has free reign to say whatever they want about someone in an IR relationship?

People say a lot of things, don't mean shyt.

But let's ask our residential PAWG-set why they feel the need to call any black woman a bedwench while they shacking up with Megan:mjgrin:
 

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People say a lot of things, don't mean shyt.

But let's ask our residential PAWG-set why they feel the need to call any black woman a bedwench while they shacking up with Megan:mjgrin:

True, but words can lead to actions. If you have a negative opinion about someone, then more than likely you will treat them accordingly.

I just don't like seeing people getting mistreated based on who they lay up with. I think it is better to segregate oneself from that person, if their lifestyle goes against yours. *shrugs*
 
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