I had to make a thread about this. I've just seen men and women and interactions differently since I've been on tumblr. And it's switched my way of thinking period. And now I'm more successful with women nowadays. So I'll just say it.
Straight up, alot of dudes is losing out here cause they listen to other men's advice about women, often dehumanizing them and turning them into weird sex objects.
You need to be reading what women are saying on social media. The most basic stuff. About men and women.
This is what I've learned:
- Women do not like men raising their voices (this is a big one...remember this)
- If you and a woman are chilling and he even tries to suggest something sexual too fast it will make things uncomfortable for both of you
- Women do not like fuccbois and bytch made men.
- Men are very visual...they see women in the most base way...just on appearance.
- Women are not...they like the basic idea of a man and who he is, but also...what he's about.
- Most of the pics I see of men they like they post are very conservative...either dressed well...if it is on the racy side, it just a shirtless pic.
- Men on the other hand, be posting all sorts of sexual suggestive and porn.
- Women don't fukk with porn like that, but I notice more women reblog porn gifs and pics then men on tumblr.
- Women don't fukk with men that are into porn heavy
- Most of these "instagram girls" are mostly weedheads and burnouts that just like streetwear and a dude they can call bae...they generic
- Women like sex just as much as men do, just not as much as men do.
- Women are more intelllectual then men. Most of the intellectual discussion and SJW I see are from women. Most of the article sharing on my dash is from women.
- Women just as much want to live as much of an easy lifestyle as men do.
- Women are the biggest trendhoppers and bandwagon riders, period.
- Women like men that fukk with fashion and know about models and stuff.
- Women like reserved men that don't reveal too much about themselves. Women like men that are a mystery. Men like women that aren't a mystery...that put themselves out there way too much.
- Women do NOT like dikk pics at all. They don't want to see them. They'll even send you pics of cut off dikks in return...I've seen the discussion.
- Women do not like thirsty dudes and creeps and perverts.
- Women are more uncomfortable around men and rightfully so and at the core want men to understand this. don't know and really will not entertain them unless they are good looking enough or have a cool and cal personality that breaks the ice and let's their guard down.
- Most women I see on tumblr, regardless of race, will entertain men of whoever race as long as they look good (to them, alot of people telling on themselves there...)
