What is your style of seduction?

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You have to ask what are known as "open ended" questions. In other words, question that cannot be answered with a simple yes or no response.

For example, a simple question such as, "Tell me a little bit about some of your goals and dreams professionally, or personally? (not that you really care)

Then, once they answer, respond with, "What do you feel are some barriers to you achieving these things?" (In her head she is going to either think you are being genuine or being slick) However, the goal of all of this is to make her think in her mind "Ok, this dude really wants to know about me and what's important to me."

For this to be effective you have to be aware of your body language, tone of voice, etc. You also have to be able to disclose things about yourself that she will interpret as you being personal and reflective. (Whether what you share about yourself is true or false is up to you)

The goal to all of this is that you want her to begin opening up to you about personal stuff without her really realizing she is doing it.

You will know that you have achieved this because sooner or later she will say something like, "I can't believe I'm sharing all of this with you", or, "I have never told anyone about this before", or, "You really seem easy to talk to, I feel comfortable sharing around you", etc...

I'm not going to lie, it's a skill, but once you have tried it on a few females it works for all of them.

Now, you can't make this some type of counseling session, or interrogation session, it just has to come fluidly and naturally.
 
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i don't seduce. but i guess the following:

The Coquette
The Coquette is the kind of seducer who leads a person on without offering instant gratification. Their modus operandi is to delay satisfaction alternating between unexplained warmth and coldness so that the victim stays in a state to anticipation not knowing what is coming next. They play on the human psychology knowing that anything that is easily available to humans is not necessarily valued. Hence, they create a persona of being unavailable and this generates excitement in their audience. Coquettes are somewhat narcissistic as well and have no qualms in making their victims pursue them relentlessly. They create a sense of insecurity in their targets and when they reach the brink, they pull them back with show of warmth and attention. They play with emotions swinging between love and hate.
 
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13473 said:
i don't seduce. but i guess the following:

The Coquette
The Coquette is the kind of seducer who leads a person on without offering instant gratification. Their modus operandi is to delay satisfaction alternating between unexplained warmth and coldness so that the victim stays in a state to anticipation not knowing what is coming next. They play on the human psychology knowing that anything that is easily available to humans is not necessarily valued. Hence, they create a persona of being unavailable and this generates excitement in their audience. Coquettes are somewhat narcissistic as well and have no qualms in making their victims pursue them relentlessly. They create a sense of insecurity in their targets and when they reach the brink, they pull them back with show of warmth and attention. They play with emotions swinging between love and hate.
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In my experience most women are like this

It all goes out the window when you throw cash in they faces tho
 
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