What is your style of seduction?

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The Art Of Seduction

The sirenEdit
The siren is the kind of woman who represents adventure and change. She develops her persona and charm on the premise that man is always looking for a variety of experiences and she presents those experiences to him. Her charm lies in an almost theatrical and sensually pleasing visual experience which she creates through elaborate attire and an air of seduction all around her. She is feminine, a bit coy, glamorous, regal, and lives a life of leisure and comfort. She has an instant effect on the man due to her sex appeal which lies in her calm, unhurried demeanour combined with a dazzling appearance. She has an almost dangerous quality. She makes a man pursue her and always seems a bit out of his reach.

The RakeEdit
The Rake is male seducer who catches the female fancy by incessantly pursuing her. Just like the siren has an effect on men due to her physical presence, a rake has an effect on women due to his ability to show an ardent devotion to her. She is attracted to him because he seems to be madly in love with her. He shows no hesitation or reluctance, and unabashedly admits his weakness when in her presence, hence making himself every woman's dream come true. He is an expert at using words and language to show his devotion. Like the Siren, the Rake also keeps a part of his personality hidden, creating a sense of danger and thrill. He also has a reputation for being a ladies's man and being reckless in love, but he never downplays or hides his notoriety. Instead he uses it to his advantage to generate interest among women.

The Ideal LoverEdit
The ideal lover, as the name suggests, represents a fantasy lover who makes the beloved feel lofty and great. Greene uses the examples of Casanova and Madame de Pompadour to describe an ideal lover. According to Greene, Casanova is historically considered the most successful seducer. He made himself irresistible to women by giving them what seemed missing in their lives. He used careful observation to determine a woman's needs and presented himself as the epitome of what she desired. Madame de Pompadour employed the same strategy with King Louis XV who needed a change and adventure in his life. Madame de Pompadour became the adventure he so desired. Through her costumes, innovative activities and projects she won his heart and gained great power.

The DandyEdit
A dandy is the kind of seducer who offers the kind of forbidden freedom that most people can only dream of but never hope to achieve. A dandy is essentially a radical who doesn't conform to tradition and often rely on insolence to attract the opposite sex. Dandies can be both male and female. A male dandy is not an aggressive male seducer but rather a sophisticated and graceful one. Where a male dandy dresses with an almost feminine appeal and attention to detail, a woman dandy has masculine qualities in her appearance and attire. Greene uses examples of Rudolph Valentino, Marlene Dietrich and Lou von Salome as prototypical examples of male and female dandies. Rudolph Valentino was a male dancer and film actor who had graceful body movements, a trim body and beautiful clean cut facial features. He had a masculine persona but he wore jewelry and tight fitted clothes to create an aura of sophistication. He also played up his physicality in his movies with scenes of stripping and undressing. Female dandies Marlene Dietrich and Lou von Salome were both non-conformists in their attire and attitude. Marlene dressed up like a man while Salome was domineering and calculating. All these historical figures seduced large number of people due to their ability to break conventions and represent an almost forbidden freedom.

The NaturalEdit
Many people consider childhood as the golden age because we have a sense of having lost that time of our lives making it all the more precious and desired. The Natural seducer is the one who has somehow retained the childhood traits. They have an innocent quality about them which makes them irresistible. Like a child they are impish, vulnerable and defenceless, open and spontaneous. They make their audience lower their guards because they appear so guileless and fresh. People are attracted to them because they represent a refreshing experience in contrast to the daily seriousness of adult life. Though the Naturals present a child like quality, they also bring the wisdom of adulthood and combine these two together to create an irresistible charm. Greene uses Charlie Chaplin's example to personify the idea of a Natural.

The CoquetteEdit
The Coquette is the kind of seducer who leads a person on without offering instant gratification. Their modus operandi is to delay satisfaction alternating between unexplained warmth and coldness so that the victim stays in a state to anticipation not knowing what is coming next. They play on the human psychology knowing that anything that is easily available to humans is not necessarily valued. Hence, they create a persona of being unavailable and this generates excitement in their audience. Coquettes are somewhat narcissistic as well and have no qualms in making their victims pursue them relentlessly. They create a sense of insecurity in their targets and when they reach the brink, they pull them back with show of warmth and attention. They play with emotions swinging between love and hate.

The CharmerEdit
Charmers are those who seduce by making their targets the centre of attention. They don't highlight their own selves, but rather their entire focus is on bringing comfort and pleasure to their victims. They avoid all sorts of conflict and appeal to a person's vanity by making them talk about themselves. They watch and observe allowing their targets to open up completely. Once they know their weaknesses, they use that information to give them what they want. This allows them to have a complete hold on their targets. Greene gives the example of Benjamin Disraeli and Queen Victoria's relationship. Disraeli knew that Queen Victoria longed for a man's attention and used this insight to gain her confidence and proximity in court.

The CharismaticEdit
Charismatic seducers are inherently exciting because they come across as self sufficient and self driven. They represent the kind of personality that most people want to see themselves as. They might be great orators, public figures, visionaries or leaders. People might look towards them to alleviate their sufferings or to save them. They use their powerful personalities and their way with words to sway emotions and to stir up change. Some charismatic figures are able to seduce by creating contradictions within their personalities e.g. cruelty and kindness, power and vulnerability etc.

The StarEdit
The Star has a glamorous and dramatic presence and they present themselves as objects of fascination. Kennedy, for instance, was a star who won over his opponents through his star quality and eloquence. Stars seduce the subconscious mind by appealing to human fascination with the strange and the mythical. They create a larger than life persona and then contrast it with playing up human qualities which make them amenable to the targets. People are attracted towards the Star because they are fascinated by them and can relate to them at the same time.
 

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I took the quiz,didnt realise there was one at first. I got the natural which is nothing like me at all. In fact i detest childlike, unnecessary vulnerable qualities in adults.
There was a question that asked about conversation and one of the answers was using "light hearted humor" or something. Did you choose that answer?
 
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50% Charmer
50% Charismatic

In my single days, I'd usually know a woman's whole life story before she knew my last name. People love it when you appear to be fascinated and intrigued by their presence. Some ladies are shy but others feel refreshed when you give them positive attention.

Laughter is very important. Once you make her laugh, issa wrap. She's gotta have a good sense of humor or wit. Some broads are dry as fukk and just don't respond to anything of substance (a lot of Becky's that ONLY date brehs and are kinda hood fall into this category...found this out years ago. Like talking to a brick wall).
 

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I got the natural but I think I'm closer to the charmer

But I can see some of the natural aspects in me

There was a couple of questions that could have gone either way

Interesting test tho, gonna make my girl take it

:mjgrin:
 

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I just ask them what they interests are :jbhmm:

who they be with? :yeshrug:

you know... things to make them smile :ehh:

And what numbers to dial :myman:


Usually if they plan on being here for a while, I’ll tell her to call her crew to kick it with my crew and we can rendezvous at the bar around 2 :manny:
 
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