What Do You Think Of People That Dont Like To Be Alone?

[360dagod]

i do too...

yeah im a major introvert{which is harmful}and people who just need people around to do stufff or to be happy has already proven their really not happy with themselves

I went from being a guy that didn't want to ever be around ANYBODY and sat in the crib all day and somehow have transformed now into a guy who needs to be out 24/7. I'm thinking it had something to do with being a kind of recluse back during my late teens and early twenties, and maybe now that I'm 27 I'm trying to enjoy that younger lifestyle since I can see my youth slipping away. But I'm no therapist, so

If you have no kids and no wifey,you are subconsciously realizing that shyt might need to get initiated at some level...also while building or rebuilding your roster...lol

Im 26 and Im going to be in the same boat soon...I dont think I want to be out all the time,but I might need to build more tolerance for socializing in general with people who I know that I might not be compatible with on most levels...

 

[Chill]

Weak in what way?

I feel that when you are surrounded by a group of friends who support you it keeps you away from reality. Like they wouldn't want to tell you the truth about something to preserve your feelings. When you do finally get hit with the truth that comes with being alone or a hard truth about something really personal it's hard to come to terms with.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I need balance


I like to be alone or I like to be around a lot of people. Being around the same person too long even a gf will get annoying to be over time. This is why I perfer to live alone rather than with room mates.

As for people who dont like to be alone, thats normal.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I think its important for growth. Your being yourself without the influence of others.

 

[Auger]

I feel that when you are surrounded by a group of friends who support you it keeps you away from reality. Like they wouldn't want to tell you the truth about something to preserve your feelings. When you do finally get hit with the truth that comes with being alone or a hard truth about something really personal it's hard to come to terms with.

That doesn't seem weak, more like a bad support system that isn't looking out your best interests.

 

[AgentGrey]

Its funny you make this thread, I was contemplating this earlier today because Im snowed in.

I found myself more bored than I've ever been.. Which was weird to me because I usually look forward to the end of the day when I can chill at my house dolo (no not so I can beat my dikk something vicious ).
I suppose he constant stimulation of preferred company is something you can't get away from, I don't think I can go back to sitting in the house all the time like I would in my early teens.

Im 20 but its just some shyt I've been noticing. I been sittin in the house smoking all day having existential thoughts between watching Netflix and talkin shyt to my friends on xbox live.

 

[1thouwow]

shyt annoying. nikka gimme my space and let me thug out on my lonely

 

[T-K-G]

I need balance


I like to be alone or I like to be around a lot of people. Being around the same person too long even a gf will get annoying to me over time. This is why I perfer to live alone rather than with room mates.

As for people who dont like to be alone, thats normal.

same, so there's plenty of days i go out without callin any of my nikkas cuz im tryna meet new people. I only got a core of like 3-4 nikkas that i'll always fukk with, everyone else gets switched out regularly dependin on what type of energy i feel like being around

i like being dolo most of the time tho, easier to approach people and i dont feel anchored to anything

that alone time is necessary to finding yourself tho so when i see people who NEED to be around others all day i just get the vibe that they're insecure with themselves

 

[Chill]

That doesn't seem weak, more like a bad support system that isn't looking out your best interests.

I agree with that post, it is a shytty support system, but I'm going by the fact that when you hang around a certain group consistently you will always tend to pick up some of their habits that you normally wouldn't do alone, at least that how it was for me, once I started really just keeping to myself is when I felt like an individual despite how hard it was for me mentally.