as an individual, it is perfectly realistic to find an individual woman who earns more than u. whether she wants u or not is another issue.
if u are suggesting your solution for a group, then most of that group will fail because of the smaller population of women earning more than men.
this has nothing to do with my own actions or preferences. i just don't think your solution is doable.
if/when bw were telling bw "go find a man who makes 200k" people would bring up that a minority of bm make that much so the person doing the advising is either (1) setting those women up to fail or (2) telling them to seek other races with a larger % earning that amount. same thing here
agree to disagree, since op said he was looking for solutions
my solution isn't for a group but for a specific type of individual.
If you're the type of dude who:
- absolutely and totally hates the idea of having to work for someone else, then, it is of the utmost importance you watch where you put your dikk. dont let your mother or family push you into being a family man because being a family man means banishing yourself to a life of servitude.
my stance on life isnt one i conjured up out of boredom. it is one based on life experiences. not having enough money to do what u want to do is a pathetic way to live life. i've been in that position. and while life was hard for me then, one thing I was ALWAYS thankful for was "at least, i dont have a kid by a deadbeat woman".
I love sex as much as anyone else. But bursting up raw inside women that I know have a LOT to gain from a pregnancy was the number 1 trap I learned early on to avoid.There are some dudes who love the idea of having a family and having kids. Well, for those dudes, my philosophy on life does not apply to them. I cant help them. they'll have to learn on their own.
But for dudes who have surveyed the landscape of the society we live in and can see the many pitfalls that's ahead. those are the ones my post was directed at. If you want to be a successful BLACK man in america, you have to look deep within urself and identify that one thing u know u do better than anyone else. start a business and market that skill. It will take time. Or it may not, depending on how lucky you are. But the very freedom you crave lies in your willingness to step into the forest of the unknown in search of your treasures.
so what am i saying? the question of the OP was, how do you get a foothold in this country? By being financially free. And you CANT and WILL NOT be financially free if you seeded up a instagram thot, no matter how pretty she is. I assure you of that.
and also, im in no way saying "you MUST find a woman to be with". nope. Because having a woman is a distraction. If you tally up all the time a week maintaining a relationship (..i.e. talking on the phone, texting, going out), you'll realize how much of a time guzzler women can be. And after spending years maintaining said relationship, you break up and shes out fuccking someone else. and what do you have to show for those years? memories? kids you have to pay child support on?
So to answer OP's point, to get a foothold in this country:
1. do not impregnate women who have a lot to gain financially
2. start a business doing something you're very good at
3. dedicate your life to that business
4. if you must get married or have kids, do it with someone who DOES NOT NEED your resources.
- this is not that hard to find if you're looking for it. a lot of you guys who love to date white girls, you can find a lot of them come from money.
5. avoid people who like to ask for things or are always needing favors.
