What are things that you couldn't understand as a child but now do as an adult....

[King Poetic]

death.. when my grandfather passed i had no idea he wasn't coming back.. i was like he's just sleeping he'll be up later

 

[KinksandCoils]

True but i think its obvious a lot of women are sleeping with a lot of fake men,if women are going to sleep with so many fake men they shouldn't say things that will run those fake men off so easily and then get mad about it when those fake men say fuk her and those kids cuz they dont want the stress.

That "a real man will see his kids regardless" is usless ammo against a "fake man" and doesn't help the kids feel any better at all....its a lot like that "real men will never hit a woman" catch phrase women like to fall back on....i think its time to deal im reality now and not cute catch phrases...and women should try to act like they got sense and allow these "fake men" to see they kids without all the bullshyt...a "fake man" in his childs life is better than no man 9 times outta 10

True. I like your point of view on this. If I ever become a single mother I wouldn't deny the father rights unless I felt that he was a real danger to me or the kid.....

 

[Marco Zen]

True but i think its obvious a lot of women are sleeping with a lot of fake men,if women are going to sleep with so many fake men they shouldn't say things that will run those fake men off so easily and then get mad about it when those fake men say fuk her and those kids cuz they dont want the stress.

That "a real man will see his kids regardless" is usless ammo against a "fake man" and doesn't help the kids feel any better at all....its a lot like that "real men will never hit a woman" catch phrase women like to fall back on....i think its time to deal im reality now and not cute catch phrases...and women should try to act like they got sense and allow these "fake men" to see they kids without all the bullshyt...a "fake man" in his childs life is better than no man 9 times outta 10

I know nikkaz that hate their mom overthat kinda shyt. grown ass men now. i grew up wit. i watch that woman cook clean do everything for the nikka and some "where was my daddy" shyt they carry around till this day make them say "fukk that bytch" about their own mother

im like how yu sy fukk that bytch about your own mom, but i cant judge. guess some nikkaz got they reasons

 

[Malik]

I couldn't understand how a father could abandon his kids and not be apart of they life...."daddy"


But as i got older and realize how these bytches operate my eyes got opened...not sayin my mama was like these dumb ho's outchea...i definitely couldn't IMAGINE my mama tellin my pops "We don't need you! take ya bum azz on,you don't ever have to see us again bytch azz nikka!"....."These aint even ya kids bytch azz nikka"

I couldn't IMAGINE my mama sayin that at all knowing her as i know her,but i don't know what they relationship was like....but i can see a little better why a nikka would say to some kids and his baby mama,even though i personally couldn't imagine doin it.

i feel bad for nikkas who grow up hatin they pops then get older and you start to see ya mama from the perspective of a grown man,and suddenly you can understand ya mama aint shyt and might be a little crazy and understand why ya daddy mighta got the fuk up outta dodge...even though u still love ya mama

Nikkas gonna avoid this one

 

[Marco Zen]

Not mine. Women know nothing about being men, just like we know nothing about being a woman. I looked up to my big brother and father when I was growing up

i did too. but i also learned how a woman is supposed to act by the females i grew up around (family females). ..but id be lyin my ass off if i said women i fukk wit don't help define how i see myself as a man. you dam right they do. the good and the bad.

 

[Jayson_bourn]

I remember not knowing what being high meant. I had no concept of it at all.

I remember watching that michael jackson moonwalker movie. When the bad guy had the needles and threatened to get the kids high on drugs. I kept asking my cousin whats in the needle and he said its not poison, its going to get them high.

I was like high like... what? why?


Remembering the look on his face I could tell he really didn't want to be the one to have this conversation with me. He tried to explain how it makes you feel good, but its not good for you. I said like candy and soda n shyt? he was like no n)gga not like soda at all.


I dont remember when I finally understood the concept but I just remember walking away from that convo like