among my boys..if she is established by me as a gf then she is off limits......shes only close to 2 of them..one because she's buddy buddy with his woman; the other is my younger cousin who knows if he violates that the outcome will be not so good 
What are the rules between gf/wifey and your male friends?
- Thread starter Mr Uncle Leroy
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I don't put anything past anybody and never assume that people respect boundaries and relationships, regardless if that's homie or not. Too many trifling people out here lol.
I don't think there is any reason for anybody to have a separate relationship with their s/o's friends without including the s/o themselves unless they were friends before.
I don't think there is any reason for anybody to have a separate relationship with their s/o's friends without including the s/o themselves unless they were friends before.
Polygraph steez
.....even when i lie
Good question. makes me realize i made a mistake recently. i have my circle of boys, and this one girl that was part of the circle. me and her had a little crush thing going on but never took it further. i wanted to be with her but it didnt happen. it probably was for the better because shes mad tight with 2 of my boys, so theres times where them 3 hang out when im not there. i know they wouldnt fukk with her even if i never liked her but if we would have hooked up, i prob wouldnt like for her to be chilling with them when im not around. but she knew them first so its a tricky situation. moral of the story, dont go for girls who are part of your circle. if your girl is part of your circle, u want her to be known as your girl, not as ______
Huellz Santana
Shocking
depends on how insecure the man is and how much of a whore the woman is. both scenarios lead to a lot of trouble.
i know a dude who was so insecure he wouldn't even let me drive his wife to get some food for his family while he was laid up in the hospital.
I was like "ok, let's roll and get some food" he was like "I want her to stay."
i was like "I guess I'll go get it on my own then."
i know a dude who was so insecure he wouldn't even let me drive his wife to get some food for his family while he was laid up in the hospital.
I was like "ok, let's roll and get some food" he was like "I want her to stay."
i was like "I guess I'll go get it on my own then."
nineteeneightysix
Banned
(1) Tony HAS to go through Jason...
(2) All meetings should be conducted in a professional setting...No casual and alone meetings
Couples should NOT have "best friends" of the opposite sex...It's a very thin line that is easily crossed in a society with lower and lower sense of LOYALTY...
As soon as, one of brothers/friends introduces me to their GF/Wifie, the women become automatic turn-offs...
It's because I have a strong sense of loyalty...If I go pay a visit to my brother, and his not home, I will just step out...I wasn't stick around to be buddy-buddy with his wife, and because my brother knows this about me, our trust for each other is very strong...I can say my brother is my "soul mate"...
The only relationship that has any emotional significance in my life...
If you want to be trusted, you have to behave in a way that builds respect and a sense of security..
I would be cordial with his friends but as far as hanging out when he ain't there or texting/talking on the phone with them? No....prob wouldn't even have them added on social media tbh. The only time his friends should be talking to me is if they asking where he is.
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
If your friend walks around your wife in a wife beater or less..............
If you're friend talks to you like
then talks to your wife like. 
Its so demonic, friends.
If you're friend talks to you like
then talks to your wife like. Its so demonic, friends.
Piss on your girl. The boundaries within the pack should be clear.
nineteeneightysix
Banned
Even if the man is very secure, the scenario described in the OP is WAY too risky...depends on how insecure the man is and how much of a whore the woman is. both scenarios lead to a lot of trouble.
i know a dude who was so insecure he wouldn't even let me drive his wife to get some food for his family while he was laid up in the hospital.
I was like "ok, let's roll and get some food" he was like "I want her to stay."
i was like "I guess I'll go get it on my own then."
(1) If the girl chooses to work with Tony...That's dangerous...Because it means she respects and values the work that Tony is doing...And so, the seeds have been planted...
(2) When you collaborate closely with an individual, you start building a relationship...And when you consider the fact that health teaching and people empowerment is a very intimate process, because you actually get to know the other person's life philosophy, and even better, you get to see how they use their talent to better other people's lives...
If Tony is very creative, charismatic and has good leadership skills, that can be judged by the positive responses he gets from his colleagues, and the youth that he empowers...Then Jason is in BIG trouble...
It's one of those insidious ways that "love" creep up on unsuspecting people...
A lot of people who have experienced this, did not set out to accomplish this, it "JUST HAPPENED"...
And "insidious love" can happen REGARDLESS of Jason's sense of security in his relationship...
It's one of those situations that leads to "sh+t just happens" extramarital affairs...
I would discourage it as much as I reasonably can...
My homie always leavin his girl around his friends. I went over there one time and his girl just got out the shower and had on a wife beater and some cut off sweat pants. My homie left me there with her while he went to the store. I just stared at the wall the whole time like
