What are the rules between gf/wifey and your male friends?

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

What are the rules between gf/wifey and your male friends? Do all of all hang out together? exchange numbers? Get together when yall are not there.

I try to make sure, there is a line between me and my buddys girls/wives. Always trying to make sure homie knows what is going on is business. I have a homie (Jason) whose wifey (Shanell) is in health career. My other homie (Tony) is in non for profit and he trying to motivate youth. Now Tony reached out to Shanell on some I need someone to talk to the youth about healthcare to motivate them from going to streets and showing them there other career options. Tony has also offered to pay Shanell/trip to teach the course to the kids...Is it all business? Or is Jason just chill about who chats with wifey.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

whats understood aint gotta be said

 

[b@squ1@t]

ghetto gag your homies wifey brehs

 

[Food Mane]

Sounds to me like you associate with a bunch of ex demons. Youth workers and nurses?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Sounds to me like you associate with a bunch of ex demons. Youth workers and nurses?

most of them went to non for profit field...she is an administrator...personally, it should me a male role model talking to the kids, but he trying to give them career options

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

whats understood aint gotta be said

explain

 

[sanityovar8ted]

explain

u supposed to act accordingly, u not supposed to have somebody reminding you of how you supposed to represent yourself.

 

[PicoRoscoe]

As long as tony knows Jason will beat the dog shyt out of him then I see no problem here. Seems like business to me.

 

[theflyest]

These are your friends. You know them better than anyone here. You should know what kind of motives this Tony dude has.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

These are your friends. You know them better than anyone here. You should know what kind of motives this Tony dude has.

players turned husbands

its prolly from a good space... but also heard dude say: what wife? to Shanell...

and then when we prodded said, she was working...

 

[CJ]

If you even have to worry about setting rules, that's a problem.

 

[Brandon M.]

im not even facebook friends with any of my boy's girls

 

[theflyest]

players turned husbands

its prolly from a good space... but also heard dude say: what wife? to Shanell...

and then when we prodded said, she was working...

Only thing I can say is anytime you mix friends theres a good chance there may be a hidden attraction there.

Example

Let's take me & my best friend. Any female that he's ever dated has had thing for me & vice versa. We very similar guys, so it's just one of those things if you find one of us attractive, you'll find the other one attractive.

So he could find her attractive which isnt the problem, it's that he may be acting on it.

 

[Poitier]

You should never have a separate friendship with your homie's girl

 

[The 2020 New Member]

As long as tony knows Jason will beat the dog shyt out of him then I see no problem here. Seems like business to me.

i'ma give you the business on that runway, gorgeous. :datass:

*pac voice*

look for me!

BUT TO THE POINT:

if people are tight, then they're tight. the coli tends to talk about things generally but you're peoples are your peoples. true friendship does exists regardless of that fact that one is unlikely to have even a handful of friends