What are the benefits of having a a non black spouse?? List them please:

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This. Once I started looking at myself as a soul in a human body shyt changes. When you look back in your previous lives and see that your soul has been different races of people the more this shyt doesn’t hold importance. That’s why relationships are fukked up because a high percentage of people don’t come at relationships at that level.
Bingo. We are stuck debating the appearance rather than understanding the commonality of this experience.

The manipulation that goes on in media, politics, etc. is designed to keep us serving the ones who understand we are much more than we understand and that keeps us grounded beyond our potential.
 

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I respect that you're willing to stay consistent with your values.

Imo "Career women" don't get married for a bunch of reasons but it's not usually because of career pursuits. Almost half of black women never get married and a big part of that is because they don't get proposed to.

While I respect that is the way you want to raise your daughter, If pursuing a good man is more important than a career then you would also be teaching her (as i understand it) to deproritize her own self sufficiency in pursuit of a good man. People without careers earn less, have less stability (in multiple ways), and often suffered increase health problems related to the stress of that instability.

Or do I misunderstand?

Women pursue their career 1st because they don't believe in their men. After obtaining their career they believe less in men.
 

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This. Once I started looking at myself as a soul in a human body shyt changes. When you look back in your previous lives and see that your soul has been different races of people the more this shyt doesn’t hold importance. That’s why relationships are fukked up because a high percentage of people don’t come at relationships at that level.
So yall are saying basically that pawging is a spiritual exercise? :ohhh:

:mjlol:
 

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So yall are saying basically that pawging is a spiritual exercise? :ohhh:

:mjlol:

It depends on the intention you’re coming with. By you saying pawgs your already making it a physical thing so to me it seems like you just want to get your dikk wet with a white woman so no this wouldn’t be.
 

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So yall are saying basically that pawging is a spiritual exercise? :ohhh:

:mjlol:
Inner Peace. In Her Peace. PAWG In Peace.



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Women pursue their career 1st because they don't believe in their men. After obtaining their career they believe less in men.

Or maybe they want to be self sufficient, be able to feed themselves, and have an okay place to live. Most BM ain't got the money or the ideology to do that for her. A "good" man ain't about to fly in a rescue her from herself.

A woman with no career cant even be a fuk buddy for me. She's a liability because it's much more likely that she's going to need something I won't give her. She's likely to be less stable and more desperate, and more stressed. What can a woman do for me when she's shown she won't do for herself? If value my peace why would a marriage minded man invite this woman who has existential problems into my life, take her serious and then marry her? Especially when there is a woman who's the exact same but is self sufficient that I can build with?

Children are dependents not adults.
 

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Bingo. We are stuck debating the appearance rather than understanding the commonality of this experience.

The manipulation that goes on in media, politics, etc. is designed to keep us serving the ones who understand we are much more than we understand and that keeps us grounded beyond our potential.

This its crazy how many men be afraid to approach women or have a lot of resentment towards women. If you put physical and material shyt out there to attract her she’s only be attracted to those things you are attracting her with and not you. Same goes for women if they going to show all there goods and shyt they can’t expect to attract a god fearing man or a man of quality and going to attract the nikkaz that will pay to get up inside it.
 
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Nah, CACs skin grosses me out. Plus I would never ever want a mixed child. My family been very black, dating a CAC is weird as hell imo. Not even getting into their beliefs and politics.
This feels like someone trying way too hard to sound like a stereotypical caricature of a "pro-Black" person. The over-the-top posturing screams performance. Real people don't usually talk like this.
 
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This feels like someone trying way too hard to sound like a stereotypical caricature of a "pro-Black" person. The over-the-top posturing screams performance. Real people don't usually talk like this.
Shut the fukk up with your message board psycho analysis.

“Over the top posturing” you sound like a moist bytch. A moist bed buck.
 
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