What are some signs someone's intimidated by you?

[Lord_nikon]

They usually come to me with a balanced mix of dikk eating and sneak dissing

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

only on the coli is the use of dikk ryding and dikk eating pause worthy .

 

[Jasonmask]

They won’t confront you on shyt. Some people will say they won’t be able to look at you in the eye but to me, they could be plotting

 

[intruder]

I feel you on that one.
I remember I was in a similar situation, I asked a breh about it and he said something to the tune of how women are more comfortable if they're "better" than you

I hear ya but i dont think so. She and I have very similar personalities yet we're so far apart. Which is a shame because i really like homegirl too as a friend. But i feel like our friendship has never been between us but as friends because we're in the same circle of friends. I want our friendship to be closer but she always avoids me while her close friends are totally comfortable with me and invite me to parties and cookouts at her place even when she "forgets" to invite me.

 

[WesCrook]

May vary from men to women and also depends on why you make them nervous. THey'll Avoid eye contact. Keeps their answers short. Avoids being alone with you.

I have this chick i know. I like her. She's cool peoples. We talk all the time when we're around friends but i always notice that when we're alone she seems very nervous around me. One of our common friends that i explained this to did say it might be because she likes me.

When we're alone she avoids eye contact. Avoids long conversations. If we end up in a room together alone she hurries up to leave the room.

I didnt believe the whole her liking me thing until this hapenned: One time we ran into each other at a club and we were both tipsy as fukk. We danced, had a great time together. But i was with our other friends and she just happened to be there alone. Anyway she joined us and we all decided to go back to her place nearby and chill and she ended up riding with me. She and I get to her place before everyone else and we were in the kitchen chatting and somehow ended up in each other's arms rubbing on each other and we were about to kiss when we heard our friends pull up.

After that night i should have followed up but my lazy ass blew it. She has since gone back to her old avoidance tactics when i'm present. Which is weird because she's not the shy type at all. Many ATL heads here might know her. Shes the host of an ATL based online hiphop radio show

I think you know why. May as well come clean:

 

[fkthisgaysite]

A closed mouth is more intimidating than a weapon.

All types of people be talkin to me to sEe wHaT iM aBoUt cuz they, for whatever reason, cannot wrap their head around someone being secure in solitude.

 

[intruder]

I think you know why. May as well come clean:

You think she's been abused before?

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Talking with an extra soft voice (especially if they're usually loud), getting red if they're white, putting a lot of polite formulations "sorry to ask can you please if that doesn't bother you",

Can also be signs of respect/attraction

 

[YoungbloodThe3rd]

Crossed Arms, clenched jaw, feet will be pointed in your direction( to confront threats ) move positions and they will shift to keep eyes on you.

 

[WesCrook]

You think she's been abused before?

Yes, by you








J/K

 

[intruder]

Yes, by you

Nah.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Avoiding eye contact, speaking softly

Depending on the individual, these are also signs that they that they arent the least bit threatened by you as well.

 

[patscorpio]

Leaving notes on my door complaining about noise and not even putting your name but can't look even look me in the eye and be mute when i walk past you

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

Story of my life I think it’s time I shave the beard for a more friendly look

 

[god shamgod]

Avoiding eye contact, if a man can't look you directly in your eyes they're scared

dudes who make eye contact aren't, I do it all the time look nikkas directly in their face instead of at the ground like a bytch