AOTD from a success/impact standpoint is certainly Attack on Titan but its not for me so I don't watch it
Quality wise it might be steins; gate
HxH is a remake so I can't count it.
For a crew who are vetted to put me onto anime I have this thread.
I've watched a lot of the anime the active brehs in here talk about. I still have The Great Pretender in my watch queue which
@LauderdaleBoss has brought up a couple times.
I honestly agree with a lot of what the breh straw hat luffy has to say but I dunno about the eva critique.
"Yeah Shinji is one of the worst and most unlikable protagonists simps ever. The series is all Opening, Fly me to the moon, and favortisim to what the "best girl"
Saying Eva is all "fly me to the moon" is like saying Jojo is all "freak'n you" Its a strange way of looking at it IMO. The song precedes the anime and didn't even get it's identity from the anime. The intro is good but an intro CAN'T carry a show no matter how good it is. There's mad shows faded in obscurity with amazing intros. The "best girl" and general otaku culture following of the show to me demonstrates that Eva can be enjoyed on multiple levels, which isn't a bad thing, but still brings criticism to the show due to people not liking 1 element from 1 level. I'm certain with the original run of Evangelion (and End of Evangelion) was created with the intention of shunning that whole culture and escapism as a whole. The way you see Shinji is no different than the way the creators see Eva fans watching and living through him.
They then saw the success of Eva and how those topics became a huge boost in popularity around Evangelion, and created the rebuild of Evangelion with this in mind. This is why they added Mari who's created with "best girl" qualities in mind without the "downsides" of Asuka and Rei. Even Asuka and Rei have had their personalities and actions altered with this in mind and while it starts off similar and looks like it will be smooth sailing, shyt hits the fan even faster and turns out even MORE bleak than the original run. It is taking a stand to demonstrate the "future the eva fandom" and opposed it when they could have easily played it straight and caked off of merchandising. Even still, if you don't want to look at it to this level, and just want to enjoy it as a mecha deconstruction (or even as just a mecha anime), you are perfectly capable of doing so. For that, I have to give it credit.
The main element of Evangelion which somehow manages to avoid any critique at all, is how religious themes are all over the anime but pretty much serve no real purpose outside of cool visuals. They are
literally fake deep because they make people think there is depth when they serve no purpose. The show already has depth on the coming-of-age side and the mecha side which makes it even weirder.