I wouldn’t say shyt, because I will never deal with a woman with multiple kids and even if she has one kid that kid , i would have to be around to see how mom handle her kid
Being in my 40s I have dated women with a kid and only 2 out of the 20 the woman was good parents. the 2 women was not only financially stable but they kid was scared to death of their mom and obeyed them
Only person who can deal with a situation like this is the father.. mom is scared of her fukking kids..
Those kids would have dumped in the toilet head first disrespecting me