Well....There goes the myth that most Black Men are Abandoning Their Responsibilities.

Now seeing this do you still believe the hype that most Black Men are Irresponsible?

  • Yes

    Votes: 5 14.7%
  • No

    Votes: 29 85.3%

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And even better discussion we should be having with our white male counterparts is why are they having so many children out of wedlock considering WW are the fastest growing group of single mothers in this here US of A. Let's discuss the problems in WM running away from responsibility :jbhmm:
 

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Yall lost if you ever believed those stats those crackas was pushing,that many black women was quick to eat up and regurgatate....but at the end of the day,the 40 percent number is still alarming considering our current state if accurate....nikkas celebrating as if single fathers arent burdened and held down by b*stard babies as much as women,and thats a problem....its still two black people burdened financially and by responsibility they not ready or prepared for....when we called for more abortion we had pebbles thrown at us though:mjcry:...we need more building before babies,and those stats still show why it aint a whole lot of building going on too many single fathers and mothers handicapping themselves too early.

Too many people want to have kids under 25, and that just kills wealth building.
 

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nikkas mad at my post but reality doesn't reflect these stats. Even Thomas said that and he's one of the most level headed, unbiased posters on the Coli
 

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If you haven't realize that white people are inherent liars, you obviously behind the game. This is not to say all, but a large majority are; they just know how to mask it behind passivity and mixed signals. People don't want the truth, they would rather commit to ideas that benefit their need or mask their vulnerability. If I was to say that all whites are nice and all blacks were thieves, that would give me the upper hand as a white man. Why not perpetuate that. so I can benefit? White supremacy cant last with equality/fairness/ honesty folks.
 

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That deadbeat black father narrative was always a lie peddled by black feminists and their simp protectors.

Now all we need to do is take away their government assistance and we can get rid of single mothers and the dysfunction that they bring forever.

A new era of family values and female accountability brehs :blessed:

If Trump got rid of child support and alimony, a lot of these women would give up their children fir adoption
 

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Considering the well known statistic that 70% of Black Mothers are Single Mothers and now we have these damning statistics coming direct from the census bureau (a kind individual, most likely a concerned brotha actually requested the reverse calculations necessary because this is not a default available statistic online).

Now this seems to prove the theory that the reality is Black Women choose a CERTAIN type of Man in America and tends to reject the rest. :sas2:

The belief that Women in general choose the top 20% of Men overall can be hard to prove. But now there is some damning evidence to lean towards the notion that Black Women in particular tend to choose the extreme top % or bottom % of males and a whopping 42% of Black Men in the middle of this have no kids at all.

So it's not really "Where are all the good Black Men" more so then "Where are all the Young Thugs, Idris Elbas and Chris Brown's for me???":mjpls:

Isn't it amazing how our community is in shambles with 70% of single mothers but only around 10% of Black Men are dead beat dads apparently? :sas1:

Curious to hear explanations, excuses and theories from brehettes here. "Not All" and "Men are at fault too".



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here is the problem with stats and charts and our definition, when you say black men are handling their responsibilities,you have to be specific, paying child support does not exactly make you a great father. there are other things that need to be done to be considered a father or a man
 

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A lot of women can make dumb was decisions. Anyways, this girl was telling me about her friend. Her friend met this dude that already had a child. Instead of rejection this bum nicca, she got pregnant by him within 9 months. Bum dude moves on just like he did his last girl. While I am childless, there are men out there with two- three baby mamas :hhh: . how could you not realize the type of guy he was?
i see the same thing... this chick and her friend both got a baby by the same dude.. he don't see, nor care for either one

i ask her how this happened


"well i dated him first we broke up and he got with my friend... he got her pregnant... BUT IT'S HER FAULT SHE WON'T LET HIM SEE HIS BABY"

i tell her that's bullshyt cause he could take her to court and demand to see him..

"no i've seen the messages.. she says she won't let him see him cause he never pays nothing"

she just gloss over what i just said... and the fact she saw proof that he don't pay nothing

months later she pregnant by dude


"well we got back together after they broke up.. but he's going to be here for my baby.. i know it... he loves me and i'm gonna let him see her and it'll be perfect"


10 months after baby is born


":mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry::mjcry: he don't ever see his kid... he cheated on me while i was pregnant and now he lives with a new bytch.. i haven't got a dollar and he only seen her one time... i just don't know how someone could do this"


i'm just looking like :gucci:


bytch you didn't see the warning signs from the first kid he abandoned after he left you and fukked your friend and left her and fukked you and left you and fukked a new bytch :comeon:
 

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I'm familiar. I believe you're referring to Moore 1986.
(http://psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=buy.optionToBuy&id=1986-24139-001)
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Black children adopted by middle-class Black families (Mean IQ = 103, N = 17)
Black children adopted by middle-class White families (Mean IQ = 118, N = 9)

Biracial children adopted by middle-class Black families (Mean IQ = 105.7, N = 6)
Biracial children adopted by middle-class White families (Mean IQ = 116.5, N = 14)


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"Family socialization and the IQ test performance of traditionally and transracially adopted Black children.
By Moore, Elsie G.
Developmental Psychology, Vol 22(3), May 1986, 317-326.
Abstract
Compared mean IQ test performance and response styles to cognitive demands of the Wechsler Intelligence Scale for Children (WISC) among 23 Black children (aged 7–10 yrs) who had been adopted by middle-class White families (i.e., transracially adopted) and 23 age-matched Black children who had been adopted by middle-class Black families (i.e., traditionally adopted). Findings indicate that while the traditionally adopted Ss received normal IQ scores, transracially adopted Ss showed nearly 1 standard deviation Full-Scale Scoring advantage over them. A multiple analysis of variance (MANOVA) indicated significant differences in the styles of responding to test demands demonstrated by the 2 groups of Ss, which were conceptualized as contributors to the difference in average test score observed between them. Multivariate analysis of the helping behaviors adopted mothers exhibited when helping their children solve a difficult cognitive task revealed significant differences between Black and White mothers, which were conceptualized as culturally determined. White adopted mothers tended to release tension by joking, grinning, and laughing, while Black adoptive mothers more often released tension in less positive ways such as scowling, coughing, and frowning. White adoptive mothers were more likely than Black adoptive mothers to provide positive evaluations of their children's problem solving efforts. It is concluded that the ethnicity of the rearing environment exerts a significant influence on children's styles of responding to standardized intelligence tests and on their test achievement."

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Also, biracials born to White mothers averaged 9 points higher on the Stanford-Binet than biracials born to Black mothers.

Biracials born to White mothers (Mean IQ = 102, N = 101)
Biracials born to Black mothers (Mean IQ = 93, N = 28)
(Intellectual development of children from interracial matings: Performance in infancy and at 4 years)

probably cause white people live in white neighborhoods with white schools = better education
 

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here is the problem with stats and charts and our definition, when you say black men are handling their responsibilities,you have to be specific, paying child support does not exactly make you a great father. there are other things that need to be done to be considered a father or a man
no that's not the thing... because the OP doesn't mention black men on child support or nothing like it

it says 52% of black men take care of their children through:

1. marriage

2. single fathers


so a dude with every weekend or every other weekend custody isn't a single father nor married... so in reality.. IF WE ARE TO BELIEVE THESE NUMBERS... the real number is lower than that 8% if you're going to count them
 
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