Women want to be with men who "appear" to be desirable. This goes up by 100% if the woman you are with is very attractive (beautiful)
If a woman has low self esteem nothing will make them feel better than being able to pull a married/family man away from his attractive wife and kids. It provides them some type of sick mental validation.
My wife is very attractive and gets compliments every time we go out. She does not dress slutty or reveal cleavage etc. She's 5'9 high yellow and has a nice face. Her body somewhat resembles Lisa Raye from Players Club except my wife has smaller breasts.
I've even brought her to my job and the women stare and act as if they are blown away at how beautiful my wife is. Not too mention we have a 2 year old daughter.
When women see me out and about with my daughter its as if they can't resist themselves to come up and say something. Even when I'm out at lunch with my bro's they see the attention I get with women when I have my daughter with me.
I can't tell you how many women come at me left and right on some sly talk seeing if I have the moral character to compromise my marriage and family.
You just have to remind yourself that busting these chicks down isn't worth it in the long run if it's going to cost you your family.
P.S. It also helps to be in good shape because this will drive your desirability through the roof. Not all married men are getting play because they are married. You have to be somewhat attractive and not
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