Weak black men, afraid to check each other.

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

The past few days has made me realize something. You black men are complete pussies when it comes to checking each other, but you have no problem pointing out a black woman's flaw or telling them what they need to do for the black community.

This whole street harassment thing has shown me that instead of acknowledging black women and their concerns, they would rather make fun and point fingers at her. "Oh you were probably dressed like a slut." "Oh you made it up, that doesn't happen to my mama(cousin, auntie, grandma)." You do anything to avoid having to look at your fellow black man and acknowledge that he is the problem and he needs to be addressed.

It's not just this issue, it's with drug selling in the community, dead beats not parenting their kids, and more issues, you point the finger at black women, you blame " black matriarchy" without even thinking of the black man's hand in all of these issues.

On another forum, a male poster made a thread asking black women not to give up on black men, yet I won't hold my breath for a don't give up on black women thread because he would actually have to criticize another black man and we know black men don't do that especially when it is in defense of black women.

Take your neg reps or whatever other crap you think will bother me and kindly shove it up your ass. Don't bother posting one or two dusty old videos of one of the few black men with balls to check other black men. We knew the majority are not like that. Also I am not here to argue, I came to give my opinion and there is no amount of bullshyt you can spew that will change what I see with my own eyes.

Toodles.

I'm riding with you on this, whoever you are. I wish we could go to a time where we could police ourselves as a collective, and everyone respect everyone. Black men, we need to claim responsibility more for our children, and we need to realize that protecting Black women is protecting the community. It does not matter what race of women you are attracted to, all that matters is that you do not degrade one race of women to glorify others.

There is no excuse for street harassment.
There is no excuse for rape.
This is not just a single mother's problem, it is a communal problem. Men are just as much the problem as women.

The problem is, for the most part its hard to talk to men and check them about sexist shyt without coming to fisticuffs or being ignored. Its easy to call out obvious shyt, but its almost like talking to whites about racism. Some will become conscious, some will honestly care, but most will not, and continue to look as women as objects and not persons.

Stop objectifying women.

 

[Blah1991]

They wouldnt of had to if they just either found a competent mate, stayed single or used contraception

Or if black men stuck around and raised their damn kids. Why is that NEVER an option for guys?

 

[MayQueen]

why they dont? who shames black SM besdes nikkas on youtube. i want a nikka like obama to go up on stage and tell BW to stop sleeping with bums expecting them to turn into productive members of society.

You are blind. Who do you think gets blamed for using up all the welfare and being nothing more than a baby machine by mainstream media? Please exit and stop showing your ignorance. Also once again you want to tell black women what to do,but not tell black men not not be bums, but you only worry about yourself though, right?

 

[Vonte3000]

Or if black men stuck around and raised their damn kids. Why is that NEVER an option for guys?

*sees rep*

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Did any black females check SOLANGE when she attacked Jay z?

 

[KobeTho]

Or if black men stuck around and raised their damn kids. Why is that NEVER an option for guys?

Nobody put a gun to any black womens head and forced them to have sex with a aint shyt nikka. If you stopped fuking with these clowns, they wouldnt knock you guys up and force you to either raise sons that turn out to be deadbeats or daughters that repeat the process of having sex with deadbeats

 

[Crakface]

You assume it was because of your girl?

Newsflash homie, women ignore nikkas everyday B

Im not stupid nikka. I know when im in contact with a hater. Im pretty stern and the opposite of timid when i speak so i asked that broad or the time and she ignored the request even though we looked dead in each others eyes. Stop.

I know when i walk in a room with my wife at a house gathering and the entire room clears out and goes to a OTHER room, whats up.

Its ok bruh, i understand the hate. I like making black couples feel strong, unified and superior. We need that. Couples can look at us and think "wow, we're the real deal. This is what its all about" And they're right. I wish them the best, of luck.

 

[Will Ross]

When will black men hold dead beats accountable

A dead beat needs nothing from another man . So us calling them out would do nothing if women are still fukking them.

 

[marcuz]

You are blind. Who do you think gets blamed for using up all the welfare and being nothing more than a baby machine by mainstream media? Please exit and stop showing your ignorance. Also once again you want to tell black women what to do,but not tell black men not not be bums, but you only worry about yourself though, right?

even thats a jab at BM, the implication being you're all on welfare because black fathers abandoned you. give me proof that ANYONE with a national platform has ever called out BW for their part in becoming single parents.

 

[BeeCityRoller]

The black men you are referring to (weedheads, felons, deadbeat dads, 30-year old men still living with their mom doing nothing) have so many yellow, red, and black flags that if they end up in my vicinity, I know to keep the conversation brief and keep it moving. There is absolutely NO benefit to me telling those kind of men anything - they are toxic and will get you caught up in their nonsense instantaneously. If I don't get cursed out immediately, caught up in beef, a fight or worse for doing what you suggest (we) do, they still wouldn't register ANYTHING I said.

The bottom line is women do the choosing (and especially in the black community) - whether you want to accept it or not. If you want these losers to no longer exist, then black WOMEN (not men) must come together on non-feminist terms and close shop on those loser black men. These guys thrive off attention and sex - once they are denied it, they are forced to shape up or ship out.

My bigger problem is with black women to be honest, because unlike ghetto black men, I have to deal with ghetto black women on the regular basis at school and work. Most black women choose sorry black men because they are sorry black women themselves. I know tons of black women who have at least one kid out of wedlock and one abortion under their belt, but because they have natural hair they think they are better than the next black woman. The same black women who go to Church every Sunday with the clean slate mindset, then go into work the next day plotting drama with the one decent black man in the office. You talk about black men needing to check other black men, but whats funny to me is most black women (feminist or not) have no problem associating with ghetto black women who start drama at the club or the workplace, then when she plays the victim role they stay silent.

As far as this #youoksis movement, I have no problem with women wanting justice for feeling/being violated, but this is obviously Stop-&-Frisk 2.0....it will be targeted at the actual offenders but also the regular black men who don't say anything to these women in the first place. They were on their way to work, but now they've been detained at the NYPD because "they fit the description" and risk losing their job.

 

[Vonte3000]

Im not stupid nikka. I know when im in contact with a hater. Im pretty stern and the opposite of timid when i speak so i asked that broad or the time and she ignored the request even though we looked dead in each others eyes. Stop.

Its ok bruh, i understand the hate. I like making black couples feel strong, unified and superior. They can look at us and think "wow, we're the real deal. This is what its all about"

I just don't see where you're making the connection here, she look at your girl then ignore you or what? There's a million reasons she might have ignored you, maybe your breath smelled like Asian p*ssy and soy sauce

 

[Colicat]

*sees rep*

... rep means nothing on the coli with these e-gangs internet thugging around here...

 

[LA Fisher]

A dead beat needs nothing from another man . So us calling them out would do nothing if women are still fukking them.

A deadbeat could of used a father

 

[LA Fisher]

... rep means nothing on the coli with these e-gangs internet thugging around here...

she asked a great question but since it's directed towards black men you must be trolling

 

[Vonte3000]

... rep means nothing on the coli with these e-gangs internet thugging around here...

I put two and two together, his statement and rep lead me to believe he's a troll. I see yours is neg but I've never seen you post anything ridiculous since I've been here so I just assume you tend to be on the wrong side of opinions on the coli