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KwamePiesie
Breh,
I think heavily on these topics every day nowadays, and not just because I have children. I truly was enlightened recently.
I'm a Bronx born, Brooklyn raised Attorney specializing in Criminal Law, so in my employment I see this systematic destruction. Even while in Law School, because I grew up in 90's Fort Greene, Brooklyn, I knew the lay of the land, I knew that although I wasn't a thug or wanted to hurt anyone, there was a certain stoic demeanor I needed to maintain when walking through the hood. That was what we learned.
Think about that, even when I was in law school, when I went back, I went right back into "Grill a nikka" mode!
Because I live in Jamaica Queens now, I take the train every day to work Downtown Brooklyn, I see these young men and women. I see the influences on them, and us, everything from the negative aspects of glamorizing violence in our media to youtube videos of children twerking to worldstar videos of black children brutally beating up each other. Then I see the state the Black communities are in, it's sad and I don't believe in conspiracy theories but honestly, if there was a design by some oppressor...would it have been able to be more efficient than it is now?
SO I jacked myself out of that way of thinking and I realized something profound. I realized that when I'm in the hood, I truly was never scared of any man, and I think most young black men feel the same. But what I realized that they haven't yet... is that we were afraid of something. That something was the "Fear of being non-threatening". Essentially everything tells us that to be a black man...is to be a threat. To be a black man...is to be no nonsense. TO be a black man... is to NOT be empathetic of the person right next to you.
Immediately upon being enlightened by that, all adrenaline and side eye tactics left from my behavior. I feel happier breh, happier around my own people. I'm just trying to work on the blueprint of getting that message across this Country.
And a disclaimer, I am a big fan of hiphop, I honestly believe it is THE most intelligent form of music. No other music is as influential and no other music has artists that can manipulate words and ride a beat like hip hop artists can at their peak. But it's because of that power that I know it has, is why I criticize it so much. If we had the same beats, with the same lyrical ability but gloated about unity, gloated about real balling(real estate, owning assets & mutual funds)...
Breh... This Country DNA would change.