I have only been a stripper for a few years honey and honestly don't tell most people what I do so you're point is null and void.
You mean wifey material type chicks
Don't call me, "honey." ;what:
The amount of nonsense being spewed from this thread is borderline retarded.
Every men should have a set of standard they hold the woman they want to marry. Marriage is an investment.
Lmao at nikkas being p*ssy whipped into marying whores. How bout you and your wife can grow sexually and experience new things together.
I think this is a good point. Everyone should have standards. But saying someone should only have x number of partners is not a standard especially since a lot of men doesn't even ask. A standard is wanting someone who shares the same sexual values. Ideally you should grow sexually with your mate.
However I think what a lot of guys are missing is that this "sexually active women = slut" mentality often makes women have a negative association with sex. This association does not go away just because you marry a chick. Sexually conservative people do not become super freaks just b/c of a ring.
So nobody is going to bring up what Snoop had to say in 94 on the subject matter?
A couple things you should reflect the standard you want your woman to uphold
Women shame women about their sexual history more than guys do.
High partner count IN MY OPINION shows me a pattern of behavioral and psychological issues said woman is dealing with by the way I am not a doctor.
I aint a virgin so I dont demand my women to be but I would be weary of a woman that I knew had a high sexual history due to simple things such as STD's and why wasnt she able to make a lasting relatio.ship due to the sheer volume if men she been with. I understand that sex is basic human instinct but we also have the ability to restrain and control our urges.
Sex shaming is apart of the society and unfortunately some women by into it. It doesn't make any more right or less traumatizing. And a man doing it to his partner only works to his own determinate.
Again, you will never truly know a specific number. So it is silly to focus on it. The quality of the last relationship and the person's current issues on sex and sexuality are more telling then a number. A woman can have the same behavioral and psychological issues as the next woman but deals with it through sexual repression. Neither is more healthy or more honorable.
IMO asking a woman how many partners she's had is asking to be lied to. There is no benefit to a woman revealing her true number. NONE. So why would see tell you? A woman can easily be a "slut" and then lie to you about. You will be none the wiser unless she is just sloppy with it.
But as you say, it is you opinion. I am just giving you my perspective as a woman about how sex shaming affects women and their relationships.
Excellent trollingA lot of focus on this site goes towards women being hos and not being worthwhile.
Honestly, the bigger problem I tend to see in reality is women getting with, and staying with men who really aint shyt except for the fact that they give her dikk and that he might be a nice guy.
Women need to understand that being nice and having a penis really shouldn't be enough for them.
I'll drop the feminist shyt tho.
Honesty is the true key to a lasting relationship. If she cant be honest about her sexual history than that relationship is doomed to fail. she wasnt the one to begin with
Do they really say that?
But you wouldn't know either way.
My only point is that I am sure that a lot of men really want good long lasting relationships but sexism is so determintely to that cause especially if the want a sexually healthy partner.
I knew a girl who was a big time hoe and said she didn't like kissing during sex. She also said she didn't like missionary because she didn't want to look into dude's eyes. This is a chick who fukked in front of a whole bunch of people at parties, made sex tapes and would go hang around strange dudes and hope they would rape her. Yes this was a white girl.