Brother/sister, the current black marriage rate is 34.4% for men and 28.6% for women.
62% of white women are married. These numbers are absymal for us and it needs to take a lot of self reflection to call it for what it is.
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What is driving the racial marriage gap in the United States?
The black community used to be the most married community in the nation. The less a community is married the weaker it becomes. This is just facts and the over sexualization that men seek and women embrace relates to it. In this very thread many brothers outright say it's a good thing so they don't have to commit.
To be fair, birth control pill was and is the biggest alteration to society. It goes completely against nature and its existence coincided with the sex revolution. The ability to have sex without repercussion absolutely was a revolution, brother, and was step one as to how we got here today.