LadySimone
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A man can break into your home and start having sex with you while you're sleeping and that is considered rape.
You liking it and that person being your s/o doesn't change that.
You cannot change a definition to where you deem fit.
With that being said, I think every relationship has unspoken rules on what is ok and what is not ok between both partners. Some women like it and some women don't but I think the most important thing to remember is that the definition doesn't change.
Ignore my point about it being from an SO and all rape might be force but not all force is rape. It can be consensual and still be forceful and domineering.