Wait a minute....so like...I'm really going to be with this one girl for the rest of my life!?

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It doesn't matter how you feel about her

Women end 80 percent of all relationships

Always have an escape plan breh, ALWAYS.

Love is a feeling that can and does fade.

i do. i am super calculated.

im 25. my 5-year plan is ZERO debt, NICE savings, no KIDS, and career stability with mobility.


i am in a good job now but i need this job i recently interviewed for. i need this bread.
 

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Tell her you've just lost all your money and job prospects.
Then judge the future with her by what her first facial expression is.
But you gotta catch that shyt QUICKLY.

nah she isnt like that. she been riding with me since i had the 1998 grand mark with no heat :wow:

now im in that 2008 and she still here :wow:
 

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never lived with any of my gf. Won't happen till I hit my middle 30's
 

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I really don't see anything wrong with what you said op. Explain to me how doing those things with the love of your life is so horrible? It seems better to do it with someone you love rather than someone you don't care about. You should tell her how you feel.
 

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You aren't ready. Just wait till you are 35 and the only available women are 25 year old women and the jaded women your age with kids.
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Most of these guys are miserable human beings. I'd say look for advice from successful family members, church or even colleagues. Not internet forums and certainly not thecoli.com
 

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you movin in together with her? she probably expecting a ring sooner than later bruh

we plan to asap...seeking jobs near one another now.

and yup...i know she wants a ring.

I really don't see anything wrong with what you said op. Explain to me how doing those things with the love of your life is so horrible? It seems better to do it with someone you love rather than someone you don't care about. You should tell her how you feel.

it isnt. im excited for those things.

she knows how i feel.

i just want her to get more focused on being independent. i dont feel like she's all the way there just yet
 
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