I'm not one of those guys that do the whole ''never hit a woman'', sh!t. Not that I think Jay should have hit her here, I think he did the right thing of course. But in a general sense, women are very capable of killing or seriously injuring a man. Men aren't invincible. I'd fukk a chick up just like she was a dude, if I felt my safety was truly threatened.
dawgs most women are understanding of the fact that some chicks are violently aggressive and like to push boundaries, my grandma even told me "sometimes you just gotta hit a bytch when she doesn't really leave you a choice
" only the select super feminist few think its absolutely incorrect to duff a female under any circumstances....
Now the appropriate steps to take is
1) Defuse the situation by leaving the scene of the argument
2) If that dont work - Restrain her ass, hold her arms, shake her whatever the fukk
3) If THAT doesnt work and u on the receiving end of an ass whupping...
Open palm SLAP the shyt out of her, just one time, and pray to God that calms her down enough
Or you might just have to resign yourself to going to jail that night
And only follow these rules if its a chick tall/strong enough to do you some real physical damage