I'm attracted to petite average thick big athletic short tall etc women.
But I admit in my personal experience the 2 biggest women I've dealt with were the most difficult and frustrating to deal with. Simultaneously insecure and full of themselves. Which is of course narcissism.
The most believable part of the story is Lizzo allegedly being hypocritical of body and weight shaming. The big girls I've dealt with were constantly roasting friends and associates behind their backs about their size, skin tone, body shape..talking about how other men they dealt with were short or small down there(unprompted)
Yet demand grace when it comes to their personal insecurities.
I'm rambling but my point is I've ran into big women like Lizzo before.