UPDATE PG 16 "I want to really get to know you before we get physical" = Toss azz in the Bushes ?

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Not wanting to let a guy that you barely know stick his dikk inside of you doesn't mean you're putting sex on a pedestal. and it doesn't mean it's the best thing you have to offer.

3 dates or 15 dates

Honestly what's the difference

What matters is after he fukkkS you... Then what are u going to do to keep him interested

 

[Ashley Banks]

She wants to have sex with him but she's is trying to get as many free dinner dates possible Before letting him fukkk

That's why we need to abolish the whole dating bullcrap... Both parties start neutral

But if I'm taking your ass out every Friday and you aint letting me smash then bushes

You know this how?

and it's disturbing that you think a woman should have sex with a man just because he takes her out. I truly hope you never give advice to any females, Malcolm.

 

[Stuntone]

Not wanting to let a guy that you barely know stick his dikk inside of you doesn't mean you're putting sex on a pedestal. and it doesn't mean it's the best thing you have to offer.

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You might not think so, but to men, when you say "I'm going to hold back sex" while we still hangout out and spend time. It make sex a goal to a man. Honestly I don't mind waiting, I've waiting with most of my girlfriends, but they never say I'm making you wait. They just don't have sex until they're really. Which I respect 100%.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I didnt say that doing this wouldn't lead to success but the reason behind it. You're deliberately playing with that woman's feelings because you want to have sex with her. Why? Because if a woman doesn't want to fukk you in the first meeting then you have no other use for her?

If I'm paying on every date cotdamn right I want her to let me fukkk

Just like how y'all want men to pay for dinner


We want to smash on site

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You know this how?

and it's disturbing that you think a woman should have sex with a man just because he takes her out. I truly hope you never give advice to any females, Malcolm.

Dude paid for 3 dates
You cotdamn right she wants to get free meals...

That's why every party should pay for their own

 

[NotaPAWG]

If I'm paying on every date cotdamn right I want her to let me fukkk

Just like how y'all want men to pay for dinner


We want to smash on site

why not just find a whore off the backpage then? at least you know its guaranteed p*ssy..

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Is this acceptable from any girl who isn't super fine and/or a virgin?

I met this chick from GA here in DC. Her body is A1, face is average. I know she likes me a lot. She has me on the boyfriend track, and I don't know how I could have avoided it. We've went out on 3 dates, I've paid for them all. Smdh, bcuz I know better, but that azz is perfect in jeans. They haven't been expensive, like dinner or a movie. Like 35$. Anyhow we kissed, I've gotten her back to my crib last night. We kissed some more, but she didn't want to go any farther. Stated she wanted it slow are some sh:t. That's one of the biggest turn offs to me. I was like cool. Take her to her car. Tells her I'm going back to Louisiana next week. She says she's going to miss me and give her a real life . She sees me and says, "excuse me for expressing my feelings."


Anyhow, I feel like I should continue chilling with her but not spending any money to get the draws since I'm already 3 dates invested. But thinking about it, whenever I've heard "let's take it slow" I've been so turned off, I usually just toss the chick in the bushes.
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I'm already feeling like a sucker for paying for the 2nd and 3rd date. I know sometimes chicks say one thing and do another. So should I just continue to chill with her w/o spending money.

what she look like though? more detail?

What's she doing with her life? In school? Working?

This all depends.

 

[Ashley Banks]

3 dates or 15 dates

Honestly what's the difference

What matters is after he fukkkS you... Then what are u going to do to keep him interested

So you think women should just fukk a dude that doesn't give a fukk about her just because he paid for dinner? Malcolm, I don't ever want to see you complain about hoes or single mothers or anything because the expectations you (and a lot of other men) have of women are what creates them.

 

[Stuntone]

If I'm paying on every date cotdamn right I want her to let me fukkk

Just like how y'all want men to pay for dinner


We want to smash on site

Women just don't want to accept this gospel.


That's why women should pay sometimes. They want to be pursued and let the man put forth all the effort. Women must really think that only their presences and convo is rewarding to a man.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

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You might not think so, but to men, when you say "I'm going to hold back sex" while we still hangout out and spend time. It make sex a goal to a man. Honestly I don't mind waiting, I've waiting with most of my girlfriends, but they never say I'm making you wait. They just don't have sex until they're really. Which I respect 100%.

Breh why is there a timeline?

If it happens then let it be natural

Girls putting on hold for 30days

 

[Stuntone]

So you think women should just fukk a dude that doesn't give a fukk about her just because he paid for dinner? Malcolm, I don't ever want to see you complain about hoes or single mothers or anything because the expectations you (and a lot of other men) have of women are what creates them.

Why do you think most women get thrown in the bushes shortly after they give it up?

 

[Ashley Banks]

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You might not think so, but to men, when you say "I'm going to hold back sex" while we still hangout out and spend time. It make sex a goal to a man. Honestly I don't mind waiting, I've waiting with most of my girlfriends, but they never say I'm making you wait. They just don't have sex until they're really. Which I respect 100%.

So she said "I'm going to hold back sex" or did she say "I want to really get to know you before we get physical"?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

So you think women should just fukk a dude that doesn't give a fukk about her just because he paid for dinner? Malcolm, I don't ever want to see you complain about hoes or single mothers or anything because the expectations you (and a lot of other men) have of women are what creates them.

I got nothing against single mothers
I just hate females who use dudes to get free meals

 

[KinksandCoils]

Is this acceptable from any girl who isn't super fine and/or a virgin?

I met this chick from GA here in DC. Her body is A1, face is average. I know she likes me a lot. She has me on the boyfriend track, and I don't know how I could have avoided it. We've went out on 3 dates, I've paid for them all. Smdh, bcuz I know better, but that azz is perfect in jeans. They haven't been expensive, like dinner or a movie. Like 35$. Anyhow we kissed, I've gotten her back to my crib last night. We kissed some more, but she didn't want to go any farther. Stated she wanted it slow are some sh:t. That's one of the biggest turn offs to me. I was like cool. Take her to her car. Tells her I'm going back to Louisiana next week. She says she's going to miss me and give her a real life . She sees me and says, "excuse me for expressing my feelings."


Anyhow, I feel like I should continue chilling with her but not spending any money to get the draws since I'm already 3 dates invested. But thinking about it, whenever I've heard "let's take it slow" I've been so turned off, I usually just toss the chick in the bushes.
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I'm already feeling like a sucker for paying for the 2nd and 3rd date. I know sometimes chicks say one thing and do another. So should I just continue to chill with her w/o spending money.

So you can't handle a respectable girl with standards? With all these diseases out you got the nerve to be mad? 3 dates ain't shyt. How long have you known her?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why do you think most women get thrown in the bushes shortly after they give it up?

I wouldn't know.