Unkept children

[KinksandCoils]

Of course you can.





<3

It didn't work... I will learn later

 

[Marco Zen]

I can't stand seeing little boys dressed as little thugs with unkept braids all over the place.
Little girls hair that hasn't been done in days or has weave in it.
Kids with dried up snot on their face

Little kids cursing....

Stains on clothes...

Some many coming from young parents......




****excuse my typo*****

That's just the shyt that's on the surface. That's just what you see


When you see kids like that ain no tellin how dysfunctional their home is. I ain shocked no more after haven experienced it up close.

I had to tell a bytch to put her kids to bed bcuz she clearly didn't mind unzipping my pants while the lil b*stards were runnin in and out the room

How do you expect the kid to act in public when his life at home is watching his mom get high and fukk half the dudes on his block.

 

[KinksandCoils]

That's true. I worked with kids for 6 yrs. some of them had a lot of issues and some just had busy/lazy parents

 

[The Guru]

Been taking care of my cousins for a year now

Ain't nothing happening:

-Raising your voice to an adult or other child
-Purposely making me or another care giver repeat themselves
-Untucked undershirt, untied shoes, unwashed
-School bag or other possessions strewn about
-Homework not done or last minute rush
-Making people wait for no legitimate reason
-Dressed in brand clothing or overly fashionable

The issue i have been facing is the female care givers and soft males manage using ALL their energy instead of laying down the law, causing rules and values to become habits. This makes kid the center of energy/attention. They start to act accordingly unless i am there or i go in on them. They don't try this when they are with me or grandfather. You have to be fair, sensible and consistent. Nothing wrong with strictness for the right reasons.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Been taking care of my cousins for a year now

Ain't nothing happening:

-Raising your voice to an adult or other child
-Purposely making me or another care giver repeat themselves
-Untucked undershirt, untied shoes, unwashed
-School bag or other possessions strewn about
-Homework not done or last minute rush
-Making people wait for no legitimate reason
-Dressed in brand clothing or overly fashionable

The issue i have been facing is the female care givers and soft males manage using ALL their energy instead of laying down the law, causing rules and values to become habits. This makes kid the center of energy/attention. They start to act accordingly unless i am there or i go in on them. They don't try this when they are with me or grandfather. You have to be fair, sensible and consistent. Nothing wrong with strictness for the right reasons.

Your post makes me think back of how I use to work with kids and they didn't know to tie their shoes, they didn't know their Address and their Parents names

 

[Urahara_Kisuke]

@ unkept

 

[KinksandCoils]

@ unkept

I already stated, excuse my typo

 

[SiickCurllyGurl]

Here

It didn't work... I will learn later

Of course you can.
<3

But that's not unkempt ...that's just too grown for a little girl

 

[The5thLetter]

I hate seeing this smh. Your kids are an extension of yourself, and I'd be embarrassed having my kids looking raggedy. On a related note, I heard this one young hoodrat mother walking way ahead of her toddler, then had the nerve to scream to him "Get over here little nikka!" I was appalled

 

[SiickCurllyGurl]

Been taking care of my cousins for a year now

Ain't nothing happening:

-Raising your voice to an adult or other child
-Purposely making me or another care giver repeat themselves
-Untucked undershirt, untied shoes, unwashed
-School bag or other possessions strewn about
-Homework not done or last minute rush
-Making people wait for no legitimate reason
-Dressed in brand clothing or overly fashionable

The issue i have been facing is the female care givers and soft males manage using ALL their energy instead of laying down the law, causing rules and values to become habits. This makes kid the center of energy/attention. They start to act accordingly unless i am there or i go in on them. They don't try this when they are with me or grandfather. You have to be fair, sensible and consistent. Nothing wrong with strictness for the right reasons.

Your post makes me think back of how I use to work with kids and they didn't know to tie their shoes, they didn't know their Address and their Parents names

I remember hating kids that didn't know how to do these things in like the 1st grade.....

 

[KinksandCoils]

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But that's not unkempt ...that's just too grown for a little girl

I know just picked a pic to test it on.....she is precious....styled to grown though