UNdateable women....I hate to be mean, but who would date this girl?

[JLova]

Thats all i'm saying, the numbers just don't add up. She would have been better off typing up "Hi, my name is _____________ and I like this and that, lets talk". You can find out through a conversation if somebody has a job or has maturity issues. That profile message is going to be a first impression in the online dating world and the impression is bitterness. Would any of you like to start a conversation and have to go through a rant before the phone numbers even get exchanged?

I really don't see the big issue. POF is full of self-entitled women with rants and lists that go so far beyond this posting that I don't understand the anger.

Look at this broad... You see this all over POF...

First line

Interests

PLEASE NO DISRESPEC BUT NO BLACK MEN OR LADYS IM ONLY INTO WHITE MEN AND MEN OVER 40

Yet nikkaz wanna cry over what the sista said?

 

[JLova]

lol, you serious, breh? Women are only good for fukking and looking at. Hardly any men want to look at fat pigs. She has a right to want to be with an employed mature man, but her obesity is likely to prevent her from getting one.

Well, one obviously birthed and raised your ungrateful a.ss.

 

[TheBigBopper]

Well, one obviously birthed and raised your ungrateful a.ss.

Real talk, she's lucky to have given birth to me, otherwise her life would be pretty pointless and unhappy

 

[Black Hans]

Y'all nikkas kill me lol

She may be unattractive but if she wanna be treated with respect then she deserves the right to ask for it. nikkas on some "she ugly as fukk, how she not asking to be treated like trash"

Sound like one of my bitter ass homeboys...

Why should she have to ask for respect? If she had a respectable character she wouldn't have to worry about disrespected. What type of person puts that shyt in a dating profile?

 

[GoPro]

Whenever a bird says shes "not into playing games", you can tell she's already been ran through and has prior relationship issues. You can see her head snapping through those words. No spank you!

 

[Rebel Soldier]

So average people can't want a non-game playing man with a job?

I don't really see anything wrong with what she wants.

This.


There ain't nothing outrageous about her demands. I could see if she went into penis size or looks but she didn't. If a dude having a stable job, manners, and overall has his shyt together is a problem, black people are even more fukked than I originally thought we were. She just wants a good dude and I don't have a problem with that.


The only "problem" I personally see is her weight. Like dude on here said before, if she was fine, nobody would care. Her weight isn't a problem with some men in this world though. Some men like big women. Look at the bbw appreciation thread in JBO for examples.



You won't see any complaining over here about this chick's requirements from me. More women need to have better standards in general. If they did, you'd see less "they only want thugs " whining.

 

[PhonZhi]

maybe its just me but she doesnt necessarily come off as "demanding" per se.

 

[Bilz]

So, you're mad that she's overweight. Her weight is irrelevant. IMO, her "demands" are pretty basic. But I guess, for the lames here, it's just too much to ask for.

Only nikkaz would cry about a broad wanting a mature dude with a job.

An online personal ad is like an online resume. If I posted a resume on career builder and said "don't try to underpay me, don't try to overwork me, don't disrespect me" etc but didn't list any of my qualities or what I would bring to the workplace, who is going to come across that resume and hire me? I'd be unemployable.

She is the one trying to get "hired" in this situation, and she isn't saying a word about why any guy should date her. She's only focused on what she needs out of the relationship. She wants a mature guy with a job and whatever and that's fine and reasonable, but her main picture is her in a bathing suit with her t*ts hanging out. Where the fukk does that fit into the equation? She's saying "this is what I look like, and this is what you need to do in order to be allowed to do things with my body" Maybe it wasn't intentional but she's basically advertising herself as a trophy wife and she's really not hot enough to do so. If she used different pictures and presented herself better, she wouldn't need to use all these shields against immature guys.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

no nygga is his right mind would date this chick. Especially no nygga with any kind of self worth, backbone or self confidence would deal with her overbearing/demanding ways. Not to mention this chick is fat. What's the reward? A fat, stank attitude broad with unrealistic demands that will most likely disrespect u? I'll pass

 

[Po pimp]

what they write in their profiles are their dreams and you should treat them as such

they will put that righteous shyt in their profile and still fukk with a nikka who ain't about shyt. nikkas ain't gon date that hoe cos she's a bird, not cos of what she writing in her profile

Real talk. I remember back in the good ol Blackplanet days, chicks would be talkin all this holier than thou crap and making hella demands, yet once a nikka hit them up on some simple convo tip, I realized it was all a smoke screen whenever they would utter the words "u kinda cute."

And THIS broad not only is very mediocre in the face, she happens to be fat! She got some nerve.

 

[Po pimp]

She doesn't seem combative just sure about what she wants. You can be everything she described and not be soft/ or a simp.

She's fat though.

No, she's definitely being combative and going the negative route by stating what she doesn't want. How about a more positive approach like stating things you like to do, the type of person you're looking for, etc. I guarantee, any nikka reading her profile isn't gonna think "damn, I play too many games and I don't have a job. I better not hit her up." Those who are interested are gonna hit her up anyway. There are better ways to weed out the unwanted.

 

[jadillac]

So, you're mad that she's overweight. Her weight is irrelevant. IMO, her "demands" are pretty basic. But I guess, for the lames here, it's just too much to ask for.

Only nikkaz would cry about a broad wanting a mature dude with a job.

It has nothing to do with her wanting a "mature" dude. An immature dude could have a great job.....

It's the whole, "me, me, me....you gotta do this...you gotta be that..."

Who wants to be in a relationship where you have to be super cognizant of all this stuff you'd have to do keep her happy?

If you would fine....but not me.

 

[JLova]

It has nothing to do with her wanting a "mature" dude. An immature dude could have a great job.....

It's the whole, "me, me, me....you gotta do this...you gotta be that..."

Who wants to be in a relationship where you have to be super cognizant of all this stuff you'd have to do keep her happy?

If you would fine....but not me.

Again, of all the posts on POF to get heated about, you choose this one? I remember you pointing out the "I don't date black men" posts and trying to reason with them to give you a chance and sh1t.

 

[Turenne]

A lot of people defending a xenophobe in here...

 

[The ADD]

You have to make people work towards the expectations you have for how you want to be treated. I don't see anything unrealistic in what she wrote, its basic stuff that you would think most women should push a partner towards.

Her physical condition is really separate from that